So, a whle ago a coworker asked me to be part of her bp....thsi totally caught me, fh, and our friends by surprise! I said yes at the moment, bc I was totally put in the spot. Now, to give u some background info on this future bride... - wedding was almost called off at least twice - infidelity - begged me not to attend the eparty - we dont' talk/hang out outside of work...we recentrly exchanged cell phone #'s.
I really dont think she wants to get married and above all I feel very uncomfortable being part of this bp, investing my time and $.
I have made up my mind and I want to tell her that I cannot participate...how can I break these news?
Lsorrent
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Use finances as an excuse. Explain that it will be hard since you and your FH are planning your own wedding right now.
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Use finances as an excuse. Explain that it will be hard since you and your FH are planning your own wedding right now.
ITA!!!
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Use finances as an excuse. Explain that it will be hard since you and your FH are planning your own wedding right now.
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Use finances as an excuse. Explain that it will be hard since you and your FH are planning your own wedding right now.
ITA!
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Use finances as an excuse. Explain that it will be hard since you and your FH are planning your own wedding right now.
Same here, that's the best excuse you can use.
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I have to do this soon...the wedding is 10 months away. I hope she's able to replace me....I feel bad.. shes not even asking her sisters to participate!
KatieG2010
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ITA!!!
soontobecruz
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Use finances as an excuse. Explain that it will be hard since you and your FH are planning your own wedding right now.
ITA
CristinanBen2010
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Use finances as an excuse. Explain that it will be hard since you and your FH are planning your own wedding right now.
ITA! Do it ASAP so she will be able to find a replacement. Im really surprised she asked you especially since you dont hang out
TheFutureMrsPM
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I also agree to the above
good luck
MarjorieFrank
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Posted by Lsorrent
Use finances as an excuse. Explain that it will be hard since you and your FH are planning your own wedding right now.
ITA!!
I wouldn't be in that wedding party either! It sounds like an uncomfortable spot for you to be in and also a waste of time and money.
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Posted by latinaj
I have to do this soon...the wedding is 10 months away. I hope she's able to replace me....I feel bad.. shes not even asking her sisters to participate!
Don't worry, there's still plenty of time. A girlfriend asked me to be in her BP less than 2 months before her wedding and I was able to get the dress without a problem. (small fee for expediting the delivery, but no big deal in the end)
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Lsorrent Re: a friend asked me to be part of her bp but....
Use finances as an excuse. Explain that it will be hard since you and your FH are planning your own wedding right now. --------------------------------------------------------------------
ITA
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Use finances as an excuse. Explain that it will be hard since you and your FH are planning your own wedding right now.
I agree tell her you can not afford to be her Bp
shelbylove918
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I wish i could help .. lol. but apparently i didnt take my own advice , cause the same thing happened to me and I said yes.. and I have spent sooo much money already its absurd!! SAY NOOOOOOOOOO WHILE U STILL CAN!!!! LOL
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Posted by latinaj
I have to do this soon...the wedding is 10 months away. I hope she's able to replace me....I feel bad.. shes not even asking her sisters to participate!
It sounds like a situation no one would want to be in.... and if she didn't even ask her sisters...
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Posted by Lsorrent
Use finances as an excuse. Explain that it will be hard since you and your FH are planning your own wedding right now.
Same here, that's the best excuse you can use.
ita sorry for not having anything new to say but it's very true
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Posted by Lsorrent
Use finances as an excuse. Explain that it will be hard since you and your FH are planning your own wedding right now.
