So, a whle ago a coworker asked me to be part of her bp....thsi totally caught me, fh, and our friends by surprise! I said yes at the moment, bc I was totally put in the spot. Now, to give u some background info on this future bride... - wedding was almost called off at least twice - infidelity - begged me not to attend the eparty - we dont' talk/hang out outside of work...we recentrly exchanged cell phone #'s.
I really dont think she wants to get married and above all I feel very uncomfortable being part of this bp, investing my time and $.
I have made up my mind and I want to tell her that I cannot participate...how can I break these news?
SummerBride10
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Posted by Lsorrent
Use finances as an excuse. Explain that it will be hard since you and your FH are planning your own wedding right now.
I def. agree with Laura. This is by far the best reason you can use. It doesnt make you look bad, and wont make her feel bad.
stinenandy2010
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I guess it looks like using the 'finance' exuse is the best route!
GR2010
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Posted by Lsorrent
Use finances as an excuse. Explain that it will be hard since you and your FH are planning your own wedding right now.
ITA... she can't question that... I'm sure she doesn't know anything about your personal finances.
Nina1010
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Posted by MarjorieFrank
Posted by Lsorrent
Use finances as an excuse. Explain that it will be hard since you and your FH are planning your own wedding right now.
ITA!!
I wouldn't be in that wedding party either! It sounds like an uncomfortable spot for you to be in and also a waste of time and money.
