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Posted by Goldi1021
My two cents:
NFL
Fantasy Football
College Football
City Bar League ( to which I lose my DH every Saturday from Sept .til Jan.)
ENOUGH SAID
Posted by autumn
I just want to comment that my FH John means no disrespect to the ladies who were alittle annoyed with his post. John was trying to be funny and see how many LIW brides would respond. I told him beware, I might lose some friends on this site.
He is a wonderful guy and he likes to kid me when I come on here. He has his play time with his friends and his online poker stars and I have my LIW to keep me busy. He added in the dishes to be funny and the funny thing is we don't live together at the moment, he stays over my house at times to see me. We enjoy each others company when we are together. He is also well aware of the gifts each of the ladies won at expo's, he was surprised why we haven't won anything. I respond that you don't like those types of things. He askes me what happens when the wedding is over and if I will stay on this site still chatting, I respond to, ' I will chat on newlyweds now' He laughs.
I hope you ladies understand he was only trying to be funny. Sorry if any of you were offended. Its not John's intention to upset people, he is a very down to earth guy. If I didn't think he was, I would of kicked his butt to the curb a long time ago.![]()
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Posted by October Bliss
Posted by autumn
This is the groom to be
How many lonely nights has your fiancee had to go to bed alone because you have to see the latest post?
None! FH is his own man and he decides when he wants to go to bed. My participation on this site doesn't affect his precious sleep in the least!
How many dishes stay dirty in the sink because you have to get 1000 posts for a T shirt?
Whatever number of dirty dishes he has left behind. Personally, I clean up after myself and expect him to do the same!
I'm tired of hearing about who is getting seat cushions and who is getting a chocalate fountain.
My FH is not. He loves coming to showcases, LIW events and GTGs. He's met several of the lovely ladies on this site and is always quick to ask how they are doing and to send regards when things aren't going well.
I dont care!!!! All I am worried about, as are many of your own fiances is How much is this gonna cost?
My FH would disagree, and in fact has said numerous times that he doesn't understand any guy who has that attitude. Reason - ummm, it's your (his) wedding too! What's the reason you don't care about anything more than finances? Not that I am by any means encouraging you to all of a sudden become groomzilla, but my FH thinks the attitude of tell me who to write the check to, and when and where to show up is total BS from any groom. Heck, he was with me at the shoe store yesterday doing a few dance steps to make sure the shoes I was considering would be comfortable the day of. Why?? Because it's his wedding too, and he has put just as much effort into making the day something he and I will cherish forever as I have, and that's important to him!!!
A lot of married men I talk to say the sex drops off after marraige. I have come to learn that this is false. This may have been true before the internet but now thanks too LI weddings myself and many other guys go to bed 'Blue' because of this site.
Lisa, please forgive me for this. Dear Groom, if sex is dropping off in your relationship maybe there is something you are doing wrong. Remember those days in the beginning of the relationship when you were courting your bride to be?? Remember the effort you put in to put on cologne, be clean shaven etc. Where is all that effort now? Remember taking her out on a date and holding her hand, and opening doors for her? Try treating her like a lady and not a sex machine who you want to be at your beck and call and perhaps she will be more responsive!
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Thanks for the laugh! After everything I've been going through the past few days, I really needed it!
Posted by Boston&NY2006
Posted by Goldi1021
My two cents:
NFL
Fantasy Football
College Football
City Bar League ( to which I lose my DH every Saturday from Sept .til Jan.)
ENOUGH SAID![]()
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and don't forget College Basketball (don't see my FH for the entire month of March because he's glued to the couch in our basement), and XBOX 360!!!
Posted by ewickens
Posted by October Bliss
Posted by autumn
This is the groom to be
How many lonely nights has your fiancee had to go to bed alone because you have to see the latest post?
None! FH is his own man and he decides when he wants to go to bed. My participation on this site doesn't affect his precious sleep in the least!
How many dishes stay dirty in the sink because you have to get 1000 posts for a T shirt?
Whatever number of dirty dishes he has left behind. Personally, I clean up after myself and expect him to do the same!
I'm tired of hearing about who is getting seat cushions and who is getting a chocalate fountain.
My FH is not. He loves coming to showcases, LIW events and GTGs. He's met several of the lovely ladies on this site and is always quick to ask how they are doing and to send regards when things aren't going well.
I dont care!!!! All I am worried about, as are many of your own fiances is How much is this gonna cost?
My FH would disagree, and in fact has said numerous times that he doesn't understand any guy who has that attitude. Reason - ummm, it's your (his) wedding too! What's the reason you don't care about anything more than finances? Not that I am by any means encouraging you to all of a sudden become groomzilla, but my FH thinks the attitude of tell me who to write the check to, and when and where to show up is total BS from any groom. Heck, he was with me at the shoe store yesterday doing a few dance steps to make sure the shoes I was considering would be comfortable the day of. Why?? Because it's his wedding too, and he has put just as much effort into making the day something he and I will cherish forever as I have, and that's important to him!!!
A lot of married men I talk to say the sex drops off after marraige. I have come to learn that this is false. This may have been true before the internet but now thanks too LI weddings myself and many other guys go to bed 'Blue' because of this site.
Lisa, please forgive me for this. Dear Groom, if sex is dropping off in your relationship maybe there is something you are doing wrong. Remember those days in the beginning of the relationship when you were courting your bride to be?? Remember the effort you put in to put on cologne, be clean shaven etc. Where is all that effort now? Remember taking her out on a date and holding her hand, and opening doors for her? Try treating her like a lady and not a sex machine who you want to be at your beck and call and perhaps she will be more responsive!
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Thanks for the laugh! After everything I've been going through the past few days, I really needed it!
I completely agree with what Darlene has said! My FH agrees to and has ask much say in our wedding plans as I do, sometimes even more! It's our wedding and I don't understand why it should all be put on the bride to plan!!
I take no offense to his words - I laugh at it - he's the one who is losing out on spending time helping you plan your wedding!
Posted by hunnybunnyxoxo
omg!! i found that sooooooooooooo funny!
I am sure my fiance is feeling the same!! although he is addicted to myspace, so there!
very funny:
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Posted by BlueTulip
No offense taken-but tell your FH he can do the dishes, women are not the only ones who can do house work. In fact, I think since you are planning the wedding he can do the house work-it's about equal work!
Posted by ellebelle1
I think that the only thing women found offensive was the dishes comment. I could not in a million years imagine my FH taking the time to write on these boards![]()
He's too busy watching every sport known to man.
Posted by Smiles111
I have to say that I found his post hiLARious.![]()
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My FH still makes fun of me, but when we're looking for a vendor, he now says, ' well, who do the girls on LIW rave about?'
