So for every Holiday I have at least two houses to go too off the bat. So I asked FH if we could do brunch at his Mom's because my little brother works Sunday and won't be home until Dinner so that way we see everyone. Well FH calls me and say 'We have brunch, or lunch, or it's prob going to be early dinner at my Mom's Sunday like 2' REALLY? EARLY DINNER Now she is going to complain that we are running out of there to go see my Family I plan **** OUT FOR A REASON! Now he is like well I have my Bachelor Party the night before I don't want to get up that early. UM IT'S NOT MY FAULT YOUR DUMB BROTHER DIDN'T PLAN ANYTHING UNTIL LAST MIN AND THEN MAKES IT THE NIGHT BEFORE MOTHER'S DAY!. Now we have his Mom's at 2 my Mom's at 3 and have to go by my Dad's to see my Stepmom and do seating charts! I AM SO ANNOYED and I feel bad because I want him to have an amazing Bachelor Party but I just hate rushing everywhere EVERY HOLIDAY!
FutureMRS.Benn
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Comprise. Make him meet you in the middle and do lunch/early dinner at 1. That is what I would do.
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It's just annoying that I had everything planned out and it always seems that they do whatever they want I tell them ahead of time so there is no conflict
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It's just annoying that I had everything planned out and it always seems that they do whatever they want I tell them ahead of time so there is no conflict
I think our FHs are brothers! Mine does the same thing, and then his parents get mad at me! If you are close with his mom, can you call her and tell her your situation?
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Ugh, I'm sorry...that's very irritating. The best you can do is try to talk to him and get him to see that you planned things out a certain way for a reason--to be able to accomodate everyone, and that you would appreciate his help in trying to make this happen.
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It's just annoying that I had everything planned out and it always seems that they do whatever they want I tell them ahead of time so there is no conflict
I think our FHs are brothers! Mine does the same thing, and then his parents get mad at me! If you are close with his mom, can you call her and tell her your situation?
Prob not we are close but not that close LOL But I hate how it always looks like I am the bad guy!
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It's just annoying that I had everything planned out and it always seems that they do whatever they want I tell them ahead of time so there is no conflict
I think our FHs are brothers! Mine does the same thing, and then his parents get mad at me! If you are close with his mom, can you call her and tell her your situation?
Prob not we are close but not that close LOL But I hate how it always looks like I am the bad guy!
Oh no I'm so sorry this is happening and you're definitely not wrong. I always look like the bad guy too and I HATE it.
Tell him you're going to his mom at 12, take it or leave it. He can meet you there if he's too tired LOL
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Posted by ColliMac23
It's just annoying that I had everything planned out and it always seems that they do whatever they want I tell them ahead of time so there is no conflict
I think our FHs are brothers! Mine does the same thing, and then his parents get mad at me! If you are close with his mom, can you call her and tell her your situation?
Prob not we are close but not that close LOL But I hate how it always looks like I am the bad guy!
Oh no I'm so sorry this is happening and you're definitely not wrong. I always look like the bad guy too and I HATE it.
Tell him you're going to his mom at 12, take it or leave it. He can meet you there if he's too tired LOL
Venture by myself? LOL That might be a little intense for me!
