Maybe I'm saying too much...but I feel like sad that people that died cant be at my wedding. My dad passed away suddenly when I was 16 and I've learned to deal with it, but lately, its been creeping up on me. Sometimes I see my mom when Im at work and I explained it to her-she thinks its repressed feelings coming back especially since Im planning a wedding etc. And Im taking it out on Carl and I feel really bad.
Has anyone been thinking about this type of thing? Like a family member who passed and wont be there?
DonnaPWhite1124
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Posted by SOTHISISLOVE53109
I'm going through that right now....of course you are going to feel this way because they were very important people in your life and it's your most important day...just know that they will be there with you and you can always do something in the wedding that will include them as well....sending you hugs ladies!!! I know exactly how you feel
sometimes you dont expect these feelings till youre in your 40s(esp. when a parent is gone) but hopefully its a feeling that will pass soon. It really bummed me out yesterday
Summertimegal424
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o you bet....my aunt suddenly passed xmas eve last year, it is so upseting knowing she wont be there...we had talked about my wedding day and things bout it forever and now she wont be there , but i have to remember she will be there, just not pysically there
