A little down

You guys, I just saw pro pics from my FSIL's wedding on 7/7/07 and good lord I look so chubby. I didn't let on when I was looking since my FH's whole family was there but I wanted to cry. FH and I have a meeting with Thomas Paul tomorrow and I was so excited but now I'm not cause I don't want to event think of taking pictures. My worst fear is that I will not be happy with my weight on my wedding day.

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Posted by mirlynn324

You guys, I just saw pro pics from my FSIL's wedding on 7/7/07 and good lord I look so chubby. I didn't let on when I was looking since my FH's whole family was there but I wanted to cry. FH and I have a meeting with Thomas Paul tomorrow and I was so excited but now I'm not cause I don't want to event think of taking pictures. My worst fear is that I will not be happy with my weight on my wedding day.

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oh no!!! im sure you looked beautiful...but we are our own worst critics!!! i wouldnt owrry about the wedding day from what i hear everyone tends to loose a ton of weight right before the wedding

I have to say that this is a huge concern of mine as well...You look like a beautiful girl in your pic...I know however that no words will make you feel better...I do this to myself all of the time

you are gorgeous and you are going to be a gorgeous bride!!!!! Do not let something like that get in the way of your day!!! And not for nothing, maybe seeing those pics will give you some motivation to do whatever you want to do...get to the gym...eat better...i don't know. Personally I think you are gorgeous and you shouldn't even be worrying about this.

I'm right there with ya! But I agree...your pics are beautiful! I am just going to try to take my weight loss one day at a time and do the best that I can. I always try to remember that my FH will love me and think I am beautiful no matter the number on the scale says on our wedding day. Maybe if you think of it this way, you will feel better

Thanks you guys. You are all so sweet. Isn't it funny that sometimes we can tell our biggest fears to a bunch of people on a message board! I was just sitting here thinking that it is so nice to have an outlet with such a great group of people.

I think you are right 040508Bride. I have to use it for motivation. I think I'm going to go and buy the Buff Brides DVD tomorrow.

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Posted by sunflower3223

I'm right there with ya! But I agree...your pics are beautiful! I am just going to try to take my weight loss one day at a time and do the best that I can. I always try to remember that my FH will love me and think I am beautiful no matter the number on the scale says on our wedding day. Maybe if you think of it this way, you will feel better

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Thanks hall twin!

no problem!!

i can totally understand where you're coming from.
Tom is great though and he'll make you look just as fabulous as you really are.
Besides.... October is a long ways off yet.
You're gorgeous, dont freak out!

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Posted by bemyyoko

i can totally understand where you're coming from.
Tom is great though and he'll make you look just as fabulous as you really are.
Besides.... October is a long ways off yet.
You're gorgeous, dont freak out!

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WOW I don't think so many people have called me gorgeous this many times in one night in a looong time. What a super-confidence booster! Maybe FH should read this thread!

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Posted by mirlynn324

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Posted by bemyyoko

i can totally understand where you're coming from.
Tom is great though and he'll make you look just as fabulous as you really are.
Besides.... October is a long ways off yet.
You're gorgeous, dont freak out!

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WOW I don't think so many people have called me gorgeous this many times in one night in a looong time. What a super-confidence booster! Maybe FH should read this thread!

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we all need this once in a while

I felt the same way after some of my engagement pics! Other people never see you the way you see yourself! Plus, brides just cant look bad, not possible!!!