Today is my 6 month mark and I am a little freaked out and stressed! I feel like I have so much to do. Is anyone else feel this way? I am mostly doing the planning myself. Looking on the boards I see people have so many things done already.
lmr2282
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Me too honey! We are a day apart. I still have to book my limos, im doing invites myself as well as programs, shoes, payments payments payments, my mom still has no dress, tuxedos, favors, church information.... Oh boy, well I hope this makes you feel better.
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Today is my 6 month mark and I am a little freaked out and stressed! I feel like I have so much to do. Is anyone else feel this way? I am mostly doing the planning myself. Looking on the boards I see people have so many things done already.
At 6 months to go, FH proposed. Which means we only had 6 months!
You've done SOOOOOOOOOOOO much already, you are in GREAT shape! You can't go by what other people are doing -- each person has their own timeline and some people like to have everything prepared for months. Personally, I don't want any dust collecting on anything, so I'd rather do a lot of things closer to the wedding itself.
Tastes change so much, so you're in great shape for making decisions that you'll be pleased with with 6 months to go!
Give yourself some goals, but don't pressure yourself or stress yourself out over it. FSIL got engaged Christmas a few years ago and pregnant on NYE. She got married that very same March and had the baby in October. In 3 months, she went from engaged to married and her wedding was lovely with not an ounce of stress or regret.
You'll be great!!!!!!!!! :::HUGS:::
las1
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Thank you for the advice! I really appreciate it I feel a little better.
Good luck with all your planning.
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Don't freak out, I am getting married the same day as you and I do feel I have alot to get done. But I also feel I have alot done so far. Just keep a list of things so you are not overwhelmed.
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Hi Date Twins! You are not the only one who feels overwhelmed. I still have a ton 2 do. You just gotta take it one day at a time and everything will work out. I f you need help just don't hesistate 2 ask!!
Novbride09
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Im actually ok - I don't know why or how lol but I am just excited :)
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Im actually ok - I don't know why or how lol but I am just excited :)
Ditto!
springsandra
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Im actually ok - I don't know why or how lol but I am just excited :)
That's great!!!!!!!!! Just go with it!
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I felt the same way as you. You will get it done, just set some goals and you will chop away at everything. You will find that most of it really comes together within the last 6 weeks. I know, who wants that.