So with just a little under 9 months to go I am a little scared about having sex with the FH. We ALWAYS take all the precautions when doing so but for some reason now I am worried that there might be an 'oh no'. I am probably just over reacting, right?
I just thought we had an oh no moment and I'm 6 months out so I totally feel what you're feeling but short of not doing it, as long as you're taking the precautions it's kind of out of your hands so we had the talk that IF it were to happen we would deal with it... Hope this helps a little
No its not just you! I panic every month!! This month I was 2 days late and I am like we have 9 months and what would we do...we are careful as we could be but if it happened(I only say this because my age) I will be happy but hoping it is after the wedding lol
Gurrrrllllllllllll I am right along with you. Lol We are taking the neceassry precautions but things happen that are out of our control. I panic every month and drive FH crazy!!! Lol
Omg it must be the time that's left bc I'm 8 months out and thought the samething!! We r pprecarious too but I had to check to be safe lol I was crying waiting for fh to tell me it said no lmao.
Posted by Kimberley2015
Gurrrrllllllllllll I am right along with you. Lol We are taking the neceassry precautions but things happen that are out of our control. I panic every month and drive FH crazy!!! Lol
Oh thank god I am not the only one who has these same thoughts. I said something to FH about it 2 weeks ago and he giggled at me for being so nervous. If it happens it happens and we will be happy... BUT!!!!!! I LOVE my dress and would have no idea how I would be able to alter it if we did get preggers.
You're definitely not alone!!!
You aren't the only one worried about this. FH and I actually talked about this the other day. I was like if it happens it happens, we will deal with it. He goes 'Your dad will kill us'. My dad has mentioned no babies before marriage which is definitely our plan and we are being extra careful with 8 months to go. If it was up to FMIL, we would have one already with another on the way.
OMG I think about this all of the time. I am terrified of an oops at this point before the wedding but FH keeps saying if it happens it happens!
Lol. Too funny!!!! That's how I feel everyday. We already have an 18 month old together and I never wanted to get married while pregnant as much as my parents pushed the idea first time around. I want baby 2 to be done right this time!!!
I told FH that from now til the wedding no more sex so that it doesn't happen and he was not on board with the no sex plan. ha ha
I've had this panic moment as well
I would die with no sex for the next 8 months!! Lol I'm going back on the pill and we will continue to use condoms but nothing withtout both!!
Posted by brnnglgn
I told FH that from now til the wedding no more sex so that it doesn't happen and he was not on board with the no sex plan. ha ha
LOL Wow... I was freaking out this month because I was 2 1/2 weeks late. I took a pregnancy test each week I was late just incase lol and they were negative then luckily I got it. But all that kept running through my head was OMG! What if... We would have to postpone...LOL Not that we aren't being careful just being that late I had all those thoughts.I think I am stressing out about it because honestly I am watching the calendar and stressing because I really do not want to have my period for the wedding so I am kind of obsessing over making sure it comes every month on time LOL
Crashing! I have gone through this every single month since I have gotten engaged. With a little less than four months to go, every month is a happy dance when our little auntie makes her visit. I always say, just make it to September and at least you won't be showing. T-31 days!!! Lol. Feel comforted in the fact that we all feel the same way!
The pill I am on has taken away my period completely for the past two years! We also use condoms because thats how bad I don't want a baby yet! It is a great thing that I wont have my period for my wedding if I stay on this pill, but it is still scary! I feel ya girlies!
Posted by kitty11710
The pill I am on has taken away my period completely for the past two years! We also use condoms because thats how bad I don't want a baby yet! It is a great thing that I wont have my period for my wedding if I stay on this pill, but it is still scary! I feel ya girlies!
Yep, definitely guilty of that freak out. We're a little over 8 months out now and I just keep being as careful as possible, with a whole lot of crossed fingers. Haha
