if you send out STDS and someone tells you they have a trip booked and can't make your wedding, do you still invite them to your shower and send them a wedding invite anyway?
SFP0214
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Not stupid...very good...ANYONE????
frosty
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I don't know whether it is proper or not, but I would still send them an invitation. You never know, plans get changed and they may end up being available to attend.
PerfectPair05
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I would still send it too... you never know, travel plans can change. And you also want to let the person know that you would like them to attend... even if you know they can't.
randella
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you should still send them an invite. I had this happen with me and I am still sending an invite- also, after posting on this board and getting some feedback/
hmm8191
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I agree with everyone. I would send it too. I had a similar situation.
palebride
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I would send them an invitation anyway. We had some cousins who told us in advance that they wouldn't be able to make it, but we sent them one anways....you never know what might change
Kosta's Kitty
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I would send an invitation out of courtesy regardless if theyare able to come or not.
jen110704
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I would send it. What if their trip falls through?
LO13LO13
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i don't know the 'proper' answer, but i would still send the invitation
Jen2999
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Id send it too.. Its still nice to be asked even if you cant come
mrswask
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I would still send them. Plus - she may want to come to the shower since she can't come to the wedding. That happened to me two years ago - I had a friend who's wedding was the night we were leaving for a cruise. I still went to her shower and gave her a gift.
