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A weird question to get you thinking...

rocketsummer17 Posted:

A weird question to get you thinking...

...Ok so this is weird but i was thinking about this in the morning today...ENJOY!!!

When you are married and living with FH, imagine you are really sick like puking pooping snotting everywhere, how do you think he will act? Will he be all grossed out, will he not care and ask you to get in the kitchen and make him a sandwich, or sit with you and hold you hand while you are crusted in body gook?

Reymiliz Posted:

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Posted by rocketsummer17

...Ok so this is weird but i was thinking about this in the morning today...ENJOY!!!

When you are married and living with FH, imagine you are really sick like puking pooping snotting everywhere, how do you think he will act? Will he be all grossed out, will he not care and ask you to get in the kitchen and make him a sandwich, or sit with you and hold you hand while you are crusted in body gook?




lmao
Reymiliz Posted:

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i would say he would be with me but still make slick remarks . like ' ill come on man lol '
and if he tells me to make him a sandwich i will put my boogers in it
christine2010 Posted:

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thats an easy one. we live together already & i get sick very often. i suffer from migraine headachs & the littlest thing sets them off. he is super understanding & takes really good care of me. i was sick coming home from work last week & he dropped what he was doing to meet me at the train station & get me home.

edit: because i forgot that when we first started dating i got really sick & he refused to leave my house until he knew what was wrong with me. he stayed up with me all night as i was throwing up my insides.
rocketsummer17 Posted:

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When I have a cold Shawn gets SO grossed out by me...All I do is either lay in bed or sit on the couch, snuggled in my blanket, with a bottle of water, a tissue box and snotty tissues all around me lol...I get super snotty when i get sick, its bad...
When we were living together I never really had a stomach bug so i dont know how he would be with that...
But when i had the flu for the first time last year he had asked me not so nicely to make dinner...Lets just say he wouldnt ask me to make dinner again when i was sick again...
JC297 Posted:

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Fh and I live together. Back in November I got the stomach virus that was going around. He got me water when I asked and then went and slept upstairs on the couch till he started throwing up and then he came and laid next to me. We spent the next day dying in bed together.

Reymiliz Posted:

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Posted by rocketsummer17

When I have a cold Shawn gets SO grossed out by me...All I do is either lay in bed or sit on the couch, snuggled in my blanket, with a bottle of water, a tissue box and snotty tissues all around me lol...I get super snotty when i get sick, its bad...
When we were living together I never really had a stomach bug so i dont know how he would be with that...
But when i had the flu for the first time last year he had asked me not so nicely to make dinner...Lets just say he wouldnt ask me to make dinner again when i was sick again...



lmao ... i couldnt even use the bathroom for like 5 months when FH was home when we first moved together
rocketsummer17 Posted:

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Posted by Reymiliz


Posted by rocketsummer17

When I have a cold Shawn gets SO grossed out by me...All I do is either lay in bed or sit on the couch, snuggled in my blanket, with a bottle of water, a tissue box and snotty tissues all around me lol...I get super snotty when i get sick, its bad...
When we were living together I never really had a stomach bug so i dont know how he would be with that...
But when i had the flu for the first time last year he had asked me not so nicely to make dinner...Lets just say he wouldnt ask me to make dinner again when i was sick again...



lmao ... i couldnt even use the bathroom for like 5 months when FH was home when we first moved together


same thing...it took me like 9 months to be comfortable enough to do anything around him when we started living together...Too bad once i got comfortable we moved back home...
Reymiliz Posted:

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Posted by rocketsummer17


Posted by Reymiliz


Posted by rocketsummer17

When I have a cold Shawn gets SO grossed out by me...All I do is either lay in bed or sit on the couch, snuggled in my blanket, with a bottle of water, a tissue box and snotty tissues all around me lol...I get super snotty when i get sick, its bad...
When we were living together I never really had a stomach bug so i dont know how he would be with that...
But when i had the flu for the first time last year he had asked me not so nicely to make dinner...Lets just say he wouldnt ask me to make dinner again when i was sick again...



lmao ... i couldnt even use the bathroom for like 5 months when FH was home when we first moved together


same thing...it took me like 9 months to be comfortable enough to do anything around him when we started living together...Too bad once i got comfortable we moved back home...



o no ... sow hen do u plan on moving back in .. after wedding ?
rocketsummer17 Posted:

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Yea, we are going to figure something out when it gets closer to the wedding, maybe another apartment...there is no way we will have money for a house or condo by that point.
Figure we will get an apartment about 2 months or so before the wedding, that way he can move in first, we can start getting things settled, and i can move in after the wedding.
TheLadyJ Posted:

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last time I was sick FH was the best nurse ever. He got me soups and made me eat even though I wasn't hungry. Before he went to work he made a giant pitcher of iced tea and put it in an ice bucket next to me so I would have stuff to drink and not have to get up. And before he left he made sure the remotes and phones were all next to me.

He came home for lunch to see how I was doing. And he brought me a teddy bear and more tissues.

Best was, since I was gross and throwing tissues all over, he bought a pair of latex gloves from the drug store and picked up all my tissues. He even started a bath for me and helped me in and out (I was very dizzy from an inner ear infection with my cold)- and wasn't all pervy trying to touch my goodies either while helping me.

I like to think I was as good to him when he had a stomach virus a few months ago, but it was just gross. I'll spare you the details but I did the best I could cleaning up the bathroom and trying to make sure he was comfortable.
T E R I Posted:

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I think the first couple of times FH will be grossed out, he doesn't like to be around me when im sick as it is, but eventually he will get used to it

marrymybestfriend Posted:

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i think relationships are recipricle. (spelt wrong?) i would help jackie in ANY condition because who knows when i will need her help.

my father had a stroke a few years ago, and he's in a wheel chair... and has so many otehr issues. my mother waits on him hand and foot... taking care of him more then you would a baby.

there is nothing that Jackie could have that i would shy away from
lori7570 Posted:

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FH is really great when I'm sick. I had food poisoning last year and he and my cat sat outside the bathroom in case I needed anything. He went out at 1am and bought me ginger ale and saltines (which I threw up anyway). He even called my mom and his mom b/c he was so worried. I love that man
angel9274 Posted:

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MrsC2010 Posted:

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we live together already...and FH has seen me at my worst...he is never grossed out....always very supportive/caring!

snowa5 Posted:

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This question is unfair....i dont get sick and she always has something going on...

When i have a problem I have to deal with it as I am told so I tell her the same thing back...now come to my house and make me dinner...lol
rocketsummer17 Posted:

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Posted by snowa5

This question is unfair....i dont get sick and she always has something going on...

When i have a problem I have to deal with it as I am told so I tell her the same thing back...now come to my house and make me dinner...lol



oh give me a break!!! i doted on your every whim for 3 weeks when you hurt your back and then some!! Its now 2 months later...You dont even know when i dont feel well half the time!!!! You only know when i am sick bc of the mood i am in!!

Now take out the chicken for me so I can grill it up for dinner...take out the rice AND pick out the vege's for me to make!!!!
LouMar2010 Posted:

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fh will most likely be really helpful when im sick. when i passed out at the end of the summer, he came over and just sat with me, rubbing my back, while i slept. he hasnt been around for any stomach viruses yet, so we'll have to see...

SummerBride10 Posted:

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I think he'll be fine...brian doesnt really seem to get disgusted too easily.

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