A word of advice

Wendy - for whatever its worth, I have been participating on this board since late last fall and can tell you that the hostilities have surfaced only in the past few weeks.

Despite the comments you've referenced, there have been some productive conversations & it is still worthwhile to check in (I'm an idealist at heart).

But I do understand where you're coming from - and it is a shame........

I agree with Karen-- I have been using this board for quite some time and it has been only recently that this has been a "sounding" board for everyone's frustrations There are many girls on here with valuable information--don't let a few ruin it for you Laura

Ladies and Gentlemen,

As some of you remember, Mark and I "got it on" on this site some months ago. What this means now, is that we can all learn a lot. We vendors, should never lose sight of the fact that the Brides are calling the shots, and rightfully so. Regardless of the actual dollars, they are all spending their limit on this beautiful day. We should either respect that or find another line of work.