AARRGH! FH's bad luck

I'm sorry girls, I just really needed to vent. Last month, a few weeks before we got engaged, FH was driving my car on the Belt Parkway when he was rear-ended and slammed into another car. Thank God he was okay, just a little bruised, but my car was totaled. I bought a new car a few weeks later and tried to put on a brave face about it - 'I know it wasn't your fault; I wanted a new car anyway, no big deal, blah blah blah.' But, I was still laying out $6000 out-of-pocket for the down payment (plus the amt. the insurance company payed me), plus now I have new car payments for the next 3 years. And I couldn't ask him for financial help because the accident wasn't his fault and he's a student and has no money, while I do.

Fine, I was over that when just last night we were eating dinner, and he reached across the table and knocked into a water glass, sending it flying two feet and spilling all over my laptop computer. Five minutes later, the computer was dead. He felt terrible , and again, it was just an accident and I couldn't be too mad, but... he's now just completely wrecked the two most expensive things I own, in only 7 weeks! I know that money isn't the most important thing in life, but here we are, trying to plan a wedding, and because of his bad luck we're starting with, what, $21,000 less than we would have had?

Thanks for hearing me out, girls, I really needed to vent and I just can't complain to him because he already feels like the biggest loser after all this, and I don't want to make him feel worse.