? About after party

AllJoy Posted: Oct 09, 2006 08:56 AM

? About after party

Our reception is over at 10:30. I want to announce at the end of it, that if anyone wants to meet us at hotel bar where we are staying they are welcome to. Is the bride & groom supposed to pick up the bar tab?

BunnyBride Posted: Oct 09, 2006 09:02 AM

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Good question...I'm wondering the same thing

LandsEnd06 Posted: Oct 09, 2006 09:05 AM

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No you aren't. People are supposed to pay for themselves. They are enjoying spending more time with you.

Kara and Todd Posted: Oct 09, 2006 09:06 AM

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Nope. The bride and groom do not pick up the tab. People understand they pay for themselves!

MattandTricia07 Posted: Oct 09, 2006 09:06 AM

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Hmm I never thought about that. Our wedding is ending at midnight, but we are going back to the hotel bar as well. I wonder if we should pick up the bill.

For FH's cousin's wedding we went back to a bar and we just payed for ourselves.

july06bride Posted: Oct 09, 2006 09:32 AM

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You do not have to pay...
they will pay for themselves...
at my wedding(we did not go to the after party at the bar-but many people did) and one of my mom and dad's friends picked up the entire tab for the bar-about 30+ people!It was very nice of him

NY031978 Posted: Oct 09, 2006 10:19 AM

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at my cousins wedding everyone who went to the bar at the hotel paid their own way. But i do think ppl took turns paying for rounds!

AllJoy Posted: Oct 09, 2006 12:20 PM

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Thanks everyone for your reply. So everyone pays for themselves. We may pay for 1 round. It will be a small group anyway. Thanks ladies!

cnj Posted: Oct 09, 2006 12:25 PM

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No, I put it on the direction cards & website that those looking to 'continue the fun at the hotel bar'...that option X hotel was the one to stay at since we offered 2 choices & had shuttle service going to/from that one location only..people got the drift

It actually didn't work out since the GCM screwed us and we had to send out word that the shuttle changed to a new location....etc. Still worked out and people had a blast!