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About to strangle FH & FFIL

shoegal68 Posted:

About to strangle FH & FFIL

so i am just about to mail my invitations. FH & his dad (parents are divorced) think they might have a few more names for me!!! its not so much for the guest list growing. do they realize its almost 2 months away !! i would have to send the names to calligrapher again.. she is about to kill me. every week FH is like ' can i invite so & so??' .. i have been trying to get a guest list from them for a year now. so now we come down to wire & they 'have to think about who else'..!!! i said to them i need to know by tomorrow the latest. i just might even type the labels myself. can't be bothered going back & forth to the calligrapher anymore..


whew... feel alot better i got that off my chest...
madseason Posted:

Re: About to strangle FH & FFIL

If you dont want anymore...tell them... NO MORE! Calligrapher is closed! No more invites!....we are OUT of invites....

just tell them you had your chance....365 days and its now its 368...ur late!

put your foot down now and make it clear....if not i feel like this is going to continue evena fter all the invites are out and rsvps are coming in
shoegal68 Posted:

Re: About to strangle FH & FFIL


Posted by madseason

If you dont want anymore...tell them... NO MORE! Calligrapher is closed! No more invites!....we are OUT of invites....

just tell them you had your chance....365 days and its now its 368...ur late!

put your foot down now and make it clear....if not i feel like this is going to continue evena fter all the invites are out and rsvps are coming in



personally, if it weren't for the hassle of running back & forth to the calligrapher i wouldn't care.. it just burns me up they had a whole freaking year... now we are down to the wire

tomorrow is it... no more... that is my final answer!!
Dee0522 Posted:

Re: About to strangle FH & FFIL

I feel your pain... I want(ed) to send my invites out the day after Presidents' Day but it doesn't look like it will happen b/c FMIL is taking FOREVER to give me 'a couple of changes' to her list. I'm sending my envelopes to be printed as well and I was hoping to send them out this week. Didn't happen! I had FH call her the other night and tell her to hurry her a$$ up! Same boat as you... she has had over a damn year to think about her list!!!!!

Ugggghhhhhh!
alissa5517 Posted:

Re: About to strangle FH & FFIL

At this point you need to set a dead line of tomorrow and be done with it.

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