ABT TO CURSE MY MOTHER OUT

i was raised to not talk back, to respect your parents, BLAH BLAH BLAH

i just called my mom to ask her for 5 diff couples full names and addresses......
SHE HAS THEM DOWN W/NICKNAMES, $hit sent to their job address....I'M SORRY BUT IF U DONT KNOW THEIR NAMES OR ADDRESS WHY THE F ARE U INVITING THEM

so i asked her if she found the info i needed (i've been asking her at least twice for the past 3 days) i guess she got tired of me bugging her abt the names..

she flipped out and told me to LEAVE HER ALONE, THAT THEY (MY PARENTS) ARE PAYING FOR THE GUESTS THEREFORE ITS THEIR PROBLEM WHO THEY INVITE...

then she said the unthinkable, the worse thing u can tell a girl planning her wedding....

STOP WORRYING SO MUCH ABT THIS WEDDING, AT THE END OF THD DAY NOONE WILL REMEMBER ANYTHING BUT YOU


i hung up on her.... but grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr i want to call and curse her out

OMG My brother said that to me and I didnt talk to him for a week!!!!!! I HATE when people say no one will remember it but you!!!

Tell your mom you NEED those addresses and REAL names (I had one of those too....) otherwise your invitations wont be printed. I did that two weeks before I thought i'd start printing so when they inevitably dragged their feet I still had time.

Awww that's a shittty thing to say. I'm sorry, I know I wanted to punch everyone under the sun!

'oh stop being a bridezilla and making us all miserable'.

(of course said with complete sarcasm, since i actually really hate that word now)

No one will remember it but you???? that's just not right at all. I don't blame you for hanging up. I had to do the same thing last week with my mom, because the words 'eff you' were on the tip of my tongue and knowing my mother, she'd rather me hang up then say that and I know my mouth would make things ten times worse.

I'm so sorry.

well I think you just found s reason not to invite 10 people. screw that. dont bother really. if she wants them there so badly, the ball's in her court. she'll have to come up w those adds.

and that's not true. I remember people's weddings!