According to your FH...

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Posted by teenigrrl

FH hates that i'm so messy, but i am! i always have been, and have gotten a lot better, but if i don't pick up after myself immediately after i'm done with something, he gets on my case!

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Same goes for me! Im getting better but still domestically inept. The other thing is my whining. I hate to admit it, but when things dont go my way or i really want him to do something for me , i tend to whine. I dont even notice i'm doing it- but he always points it out or mimics me!!

he shockingly said i dont have any I do not believe that at all

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Posted by trojo1521

I sometimes shake my finger at him like he is a student of mine

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I do that too. He tells me I ask like his mom.

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Posted by teenigrrl

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by teenigrrl

FH hates that i'm so messy, but i am! i always have been, and have gotten a lot better, but if i don't pick up after myself immediately after i'm done with something, he gets on my case!

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see but that can be our complaint about them. I understand people like things a certain way but at the same time they(as in our fh's) need to understand that we also have a certain way to do things. For example, the moment i walk into my house the first thing i dont want to do is my bed. First of all the moment i walk in i always have to take off my shoes and change ASAP, i cant clean or do anything if i am still dressed so thats something he has to learn. Does it matter if the bed is made now or 10-15 mins after lol...I commute from jersey and sometimes takes me 2 hours to get home, and then other times it will take less but ill go to fh's house first to meet up then we'll run a few errands and go to my house after so yeah ill be a bit tired and sorry i dont rush into the house to make the bed.

but hes used to it and now just does it himself...sometimes ill stop him and say its ok i'll do it but he says he doesnt mind so its ok.

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that's so funny, i'm always telling FH that i have my way of doing thing, and you have your way. but of course, he thinks his way is the right way, and i have to tell him, there is no right or wrong way, we're just two different people who like to do things differently.

when i come home, his biggest thing is the mail. when i come home, i like to change and get comfortable first, then look at the mail. by the time i make it to the bedroom, he's like, what about this mail, can i throw it way??? HELLO! i didn't even look at it yet. let me change first, then i'll throw away what needs to be thrown away, and take care of the rest. on the rare days i come home before him, i do the same thing to him, and he hates it, but he still hasn't changed.

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hahaha thats just like me. I don't understand why he can't wait first until i get comfortable. I have a routine too when i get home so let me do that then i'll get to other things. But hey im not going to complain if he does it, and he likes doing things himself so hey im not gonna stop him

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Posted by teenigrrl

FH hates that i'm so messy, but i am! i always have been, and have gotten a lot better, but if i don't pick up after myself immediately after i'm done with something, he gets on my case!

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same here

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Posted by jeffamanda080808

I think FH would say my most annoying habit it my need for urgency. For example, If I ask FH to do the dishes....I'm asking him to do them now, not a half hour from now. If I see that he isn't getting of the couch, I'll just do them myself and then give the silent treatment. He gets really annoyed at that!!!

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Yup, that's me too. when it comes to cleaning or something that came be right then.

But he also complains that when he asks me to do something...like call the florist..i take too long. He reminds me at like 10Pm or when we're shopping or something and I can't do it then and then I forget!!

Sometimes I talk too fast and don't shut up Especially when I'm very excited about what I'm talking about. He is always putting his hands up and saying 'Breathe baby Breathe'

Also, I always leave cabinets and drawers open. I remember my mom always complaining about this too, but I just ignored her b/c she complains about a lot of things

But since FH has an apt now, and i spend all my time there, I noticed it's true Apparently, I DO leave things open. He teases me about it all the time. I dont know why I do it but I'm working on it