'adult reception' wording

where would you add theadult only wording?

reception inserts -
'Please join us for an adult reception'

or
RSVP Card
____ number of adults attending

or both?

I did Adult Reception Immediately Following

I'm having ceremony at RH - no reception cards.

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Posted by barbtony

I did Adult Reception Immediately Following

I'm having ceremony at RH - no reception cards.

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same here

Oddly enough, I was reading peggy posts wedding ettiquite and it said that adult only reception should never be writting on an invitation.

The addressing should make it clear who's invited 'Mr. & Mrs. Smith' vs. 'Mr. & Mrs. Smith and Family.'

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Posted by AdriandSteve

Oddly enough, I was reading peggy posts wedding ettiquite and it said that adult only reception should never be writting on an invitation.

The addressing should make it clear who's invited 'Mr. & Mrs. Smith' vs. 'Mr. & Mrs. Smith and Family.'

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i couldn't agree more

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Posted by pipermaru

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Posted by AdriandSteve

Oddly enough, I was reading peggy posts wedding ettiquite and it said that adult only reception should never be writting on an invitation.

The addressing should make it clear who's invited 'Mr. & Mrs. Smith' vs. 'Mr. & Mrs. Smith and Family.'

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i couldn't agree more

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I did this. 'Mr. and Mrs. Smith' or 'The ______ Family'

I will tell you it didn't work.

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Posted by JoanneAndJustin

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Posted by pipermaru

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Posted by AdriandSteve

Oddly enough, I was reading peggy posts wedding ettiquite and it said that adult only reception should never be writting on an invitation.

The addressing should make it clear who's invited 'Mr. & Mrs. Smith' vs. 'Mr. & Mrs. Smith and Family.'

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i couldn't agree more

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I did this. 'Mr. and Mrs. Smith' or 'The ______ Family'

I will tell you it didn't work.

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People are tards thats why lol.

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Posted by AdriandSteve

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Posted by JoanneAndJustin

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Posted by pipermaru

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Posted by AdriandSteve

Oddly enough, I was reading peggy posts wedding ettiquite and it said that adult only reception should never be writting on an invitation.

The addressing should make it clear who's invited 'Mr. & Mrs. Smith' vs. 'Mr. & Mrs. Smith and Family.'

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i couldn't agree more

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I did this. 'Mr. and Mrs. Smith' or 'The ______ Family'

I will tell you it didn't work.

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People are tards thats why lol.

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Haha FH said if anyone tries to pull anything with writing uninviteds in on the RSVP card he's going to call and yell at them

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Posted by pipermaru

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Posted by AdriandSteve

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Posted by JoanneAndJustin

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Posted by pipermaru

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Posted by AdriandSteve

Oddly enough, I was reading peggy posts wedding ettiquite and it said that adult only reception should never be writting on an invitation.

The addressing should make it clear who's invited 'Mr. & Mrs. Smith' vs. 'Mr. & Mrs. Smith and Family.'

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i couldn't agree more

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I did this. 'Mr. and Mrs. Smith' or 'The ______ Family'

I will tell you it didn't work.

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People are tards thats why lol.

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Haha FH said if anyone tries to pull anything with writing uninviteds in on the RSVP card he's going to call and yell at them

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haha. I'm actually having children at my wedding but i'd do the same.

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Posted by barbtony

I did Adult Reception Immediately Following

I'm having ceremony at RH - no reception cards.

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This is what we did...

i have to specify it in huge neon letters...my fam wont understand...
sadddd

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Posted by barbtony

I did Adult Reception Immediately Following

I'm having ceremony at RH - no reception cards.

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I like the way that sounds!

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Posted by JoanneAndJustin

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Posted by pipermaru

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Posted by AdriandSteve

Oddly enough, I was reading peggy posts wedding ettiquite and it said that adult only reception should never be writting on an invitation.

The addressing should make it clear who's invited 'Mr. & Mrs. Smith' vs. 'Mr. & Mrs. Smith and Family.'

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i couldn't agree more

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I did this. 'Mr. and Mrs. Smith' or 'The ______ Family'

I will tell you it didn't work.

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And that is why its written on the invitation - May not adhere to 'ettiquete', but neither does a dozen and a half phone calls asking if kids are invited.

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Posted by barbtony

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Posted by JoanneAndJustin

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Posted by pipermaru

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Posted by AdriandSteve

Oddly enough, I was reading peggy posts wedding ettiquite and it said that adult only reception should never be writting on an invitation.

The addressing should make it clear who's invited 'Mr. & Mrs. Smith' vs. 'Mr. & Mrs. Smith and Family.'

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i couldn't agree more

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I did this. 'Mr. and Mrs. Smith' or 'The ______ Family'

I will tell you it didn't work.

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And that is why its written on the invitation - May not adhere to 'ettiquete', but neither does a dozen and a half phone calls asking if kids are invited.

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We've already gotten emails asking and only the STDs have gone out. I'm DREADING this.

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Posted by GinaRandy2010

We've already gotten emails asking and only the STDs have gone out. I'm DREADING this.

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I'm kinda hoping that if its staring you right in the face, there won't be a need to call or email and ask. One can only hope though!

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Posted by barbtony

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Posted by GinaRandy2010

We've already gotten emails asking and only the STDs have gone out. I'm DREADING this.

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I'm kinda hoping that if its staring you right in the face, there won't be a need to call or email and ask. One can only hope though!

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I'm not too sure. Our website says Adults Only and we explain that we're providing a babysitter at the hotel but I have already had OOTers ask me... 'I saw on your website it was adults only but since we're are OOT guests bring our kids??'

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Posted by GinaRandy2010

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Posted by barbtony

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Posted by GinaRandy2010

We've already gotten emails asking and only the STDs have gone out. I'm DREADING this.

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I'm kinda hoping that if its staring you right in the face, there won't be a need to call or email and ask. One can only hope though!

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I'm not too sure. Our website says Adults Only and we explain that we're providing a babysitter at the hotel but I have already had OOTers ask me... 'I saw on your website it was adults only but since we're are OOT guests bring our kids??'

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Honestly, I think that no matter how many times you write it and where you write it, there will always be a select few that will ask anyway. It hasn't stopped for me yet - even though people were verbally told no children. I think they think I'll change my mind.

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Posted by barbtony

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Posted by GinaRandy2010

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Posted by barbtony

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Posted by GinaRandy2010

We've already gotten emails asking and only the STDs have gone out. I'm DREADING this.

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I'm kinda hoping that if its staring you right in the face, there won't be a need to call or email and ask. One can only hope though!

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I'm not too sure. Our website says Adults Only and we explain that we're providing a babysitter at the hotel but I have already had OOTers ask me... 'I saw on your website it was adults only but since we're are OOT guests bring our kids??'

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Honestly, I think that no matter how many times you write it and where you write it, there will always be a select few that will ask anyway. It hasn't stopped for me yet - even though people were verbally told no children. I think they think I'll change my mind.

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Yeah... well you can't say they're not trying... some people I am at the point where I want to say well I would have to pay half for your kid and I really don't feel like paying $75 for your kid to push mac n cheese (or whatever they feed kids at a wedding)around a plate and then listen to them cry during my first dance. I know, I am a terrible terrible person.