FH got a save the date in the mail a few weeks ago for a friend from college's wedding in chicago that was only addressed to him. Since he got it, he wants to send them a save the date to our wedding. My thing is, they only invited HIM, not BOTH of us so we should we invite the both of them just because they invited us to theirs? What do you think?
AngnShaun
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i would have him check with his friend and see if your both invited...
stinenandy2010
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will you be married by the time their wedding rolls around? bc then you should definitely be invited. or maybe they didn't know you full name?? but if you are inviting them, i would just invite both of them, its the proper and right thing to do - imo
JayBee216
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My FH also got a STD addressed only to him, but he was like 'no we're def invited as a couple' - I think they just didn't know my name, which is weird, but understandable.
I would have him ask, and if you are invited then I would address your STD to them both.
brittndave
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their wedding is in may so i guess i could just wait to see if we are both invited and then just send them an invitation and not a save the date?? if we invited them, i would definitely invite both of them but my whole thing is that they weren't going to be invited until he got a save the date from them and they didn't even send it to both of us (yes, they know my last name -- FH and I have been dating since college, we hung out with them a bunch of times together, and they know we're getting married).
eta: i would have fh call and ask him but they haven't spoken in like a year and half which is why i think it's strange he was invited anyway!
AdriandSteve
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If you weren't planning on inviting him to your wedding I wouldn't invite him. Don't invite out of obligation, you'll end up adding a lot of guests on last minute.
netsirk10
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when is their wedding? maybe you should not send them a save the date. you can decide on whether or not to invite one/both of them when you send out your invites.
miamimerger
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If you want to invite them, invite them both. If you're trying to keep your list short, don't invite them. There are a few weddings that I have been invited to and the past Bride/Groom aren't invited to my wedding. It all depends on the size of your wedding!
little j
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i dont think it was intentional. i sent STD out to guys that are in long-term relationships...but they arent married yet (and well ya never know), so i just addressed it to the guy
sorry
TheFutureMrsPM
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I think you should ivite them if you want them there. IMO you dont have to invite them bc they invited you. But I think in the end it could end a friendship ya know. Its a tuff call...
