ok so, ladies tell me what you would do... this guy who was like obsessed with me for years (hello he brought me an i love u necklace even though i had a boyfriend at the time just cause he claimed to love me lol!) he requested me on facebook, I was so curious to see his profile so I accepted him now I feel kinda guilty. I always try to put myself in fh's shoes and he knows about this guy and stuff, he doesn't have a facebook but I feel like i impulsively accepted his friend request and feel well bad..Am I over reacting cause I am about to get my period and thats what I do over react or should I have thought about it more? I'm sorry I know this is a stupied quetion...
MrsJuneB2B
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hmmm, honestly, i know you were just curious, but if i were you i'd block him (you can do this on the privacy preferences...it will make you un-findable on facebook) and from now on ignore any attempts he makes at connections. i'm not sure but does your FH know about the necklace and fb, etc? i'm not a fan of not being completely open-book with my FH. i'd tell FH about how you feel too. it could really hurt him, as secrets, in my opinion violate trust and that's a bad way to start out. you have better things to think. jmo!
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hmmm, honestly, i know you were just curious, but if i were you i'd block him (you can do this on the privacy preferences...it will make you un-findable on facebook) and from now on ignore any attempts he makes at connections. i'm not sure but does your FH know about the necklace and fb, etc? i'm not a fan of not being completely open-book with my FH. i'd tell FH about how you feel too. it could really hurt him, as secrets, in my opinion violate trust and that's a bad way to start out. you have better things to think. jmo!
hey there yes he knows I should of made myself more clear the necklace and obessive behavior alll happened over 7 years ago, however, I just feel guilty even having him as a facebook friend because it even happened to begin with, your right I am going to delete him!
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Delete him as a friend....yes, it was 7 years ago and it's ok that you were curious. I would have been too Don't feel bad.
You peeked, your curiosity is satisified and now you can delete him as as a friend. It's not a stupid question, it's what your LIW girls are here for.
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It's okay to be curious! I would just delete him afterwards.
littlepixie12
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I wouldnt feel too bad about it.. I mean unless you starting FB flirting or meeting up wtih him I dont think you did anything wrong. You were just curious... that happens
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It's okay to be curious! I would just delete him afterwards.
You are too funny and devious!!
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Posted by flairforfashion
It's okay to be curious! I would just delete him afterwards.