Advice Please

jennybee Posted: Jan 14, 2010 06:27 PM

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I agree with letting him be in a couple of shots. Maybe a group and one with you guys and them?

JAAMS Posted: Jan 14, 2010 06:31 PM

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I think the idea of letting him be in a FEW is good

TheFutureMrsPM Posted: Jan 14, 2010 06:56 PM

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ummm NO but letting him in one or two may keep the peace

JoanneAndJustin Posted: Jan 14, 2010 09:55 PM

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F**k no. If she wasn't your sister, I wouldn't even invite him to the wedding. 3 months is HARDLY a relationship.

Marianne13 Posted: Jan 14, 2010 10:10 PM

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I'd let him be in a few but definitely don't put him in all of them! If anything, tell the photographer to take a few with him and tell him not to bother developing/editing those..haha

AngnShaun Posted: Jan 14, 2010 10:13 PM

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he shouldnt be in pics unless they are engaged or married... no mater how long they've been together

happychelle Posted: Jan 14, 2010 10:24 PM

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ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!! you can take like one pic with the two of them, but until there is a ring on her finger from him, he does not have to be in the pictures!!!

MrsSoto Posted: Jan 15, 2010 07:33 AM

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i agree, one or two cant hurt. her asking for more than that is unacceptable and rude. even if they were already married or had been dating for longer, if hes not in the bridal party, there isnt a ton of pictures with him in it anyway.

JenBill61210 Posted: Jan 15, 2010 07:34 AM

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Posted by MrsCM

I think he should definitely be invited as her date but NO he should not be allowed in family photos unless he is part of the family or you want him to be.

agree with this

GR2010 Posted: Jan 15, 2010 07:48 AM

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I'm sure he'll be invited and it wouldn't kill anyone to have him in one or two photos but he doesn't need to be in every family photo.

Jna2010 Posted: Jan 15, 2010 08:04 AM

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i personally wouldnt

May 2010 Bride Posted: Jan 15, 2010 08:13 AM

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Absolutely NOT!!!!!!!

My brother has a GF and she is not going to be in the pictures.

I did make a note on my photographer list that the two of them can have a picture together!

Thats all they are getting!

marinai7 Posted: Jan 15, 2010 08:22 AM

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No, he doesn't have to be in them.

JayBee216 Posted: Jan 15, 2010 09:12 AM

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N-O-P-E

put him in like two, but only to appease your sister. Just tip off the photographer so if he sneaks in, they can tell him to get out!

Clover23 Posted: Jan 15, 2010 09:13 AM

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absolutely not and for the record, FH's brother got married TWO years ago, when FH and I had been together for SIX years, way longer than he even knew FSIL, and FH was expressly told I was not to be in pictures because I was not 'family'