advice please....

It's one thing if you sent STD's to a bunch of people and then decided you couldn't afford all of them or kinda lost touch for a few months - then it's rude if you take back the invite since people may have saved the date.

But in circumstances where there is a falling out, a fight, bad blood etc I don't think the person should get an invite or is expecting one. That is my opinion.

for example, If a friend turned out to be a huge slutty b iatch and showed her na na to FH - would you send her an invite to observe ettiquette?? helll noooo!

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Posted by mybabylovesmoi

It's one thing if you sent STD's to a bunch of people and then decided you couldn't afford all of them or kinda lost touch for a few months - then it's rude if you take back the invite since people may have saved the date.

But in circumstances where there is a falling out, a fight, bad blood etc I don't think the person should get an invite or is expecting one. That is my opinion.

for example, If a friend turned out to be a huge slutty b iatch and showed her na na to FH - would you send her an invite to observe ettiquette?? helll noooo!

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LOL Anney your example


But, yes don't send her an invite if you don't want her there.

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Posted by mybabylovesmoi

It's one thing if you sent STD's to a bunch of people and then decided you couldn't afford all of them or kinda lost touch for a few months - then it's rude if you take back the invite since people may have saved the date.

But in circumstances where there is a falling out, a fight, bad blood etc I don't think the person should get an invite or is expecting one. That is my opinion.

for example, If a friend turned out to be a huge slutty b iatch and showed her na na to FH - would you send her an invite to observe ettiquette?? helll noooo!

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ITA!!!!!!

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Posted by Mel-N-Az 2011

If you really don't want them there, then don't invite them. Its your wedding do what will make you happy.

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ITA with this

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Posted by MrsRtoBe11

i think that situations change, and if this person knows that there is something going on, then odds are they prob are figuring they wont be invited. i know 'etiquitte' (see, i cant even spell it, lol) says you would still send them an invite, but i wont invite anyone who i dont want.

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I feel exactly the same way. If I was in your situation I would not send an invitation.

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Posted by MrsRtoBe11

i think that situations change, and if this person knows that there is something going on, then odds are they prob are figuring they wont be invited. i know 'etiquitte' (see, i cant even spell it, lol) says you would still send them an invite, but i wont invite anyone who i dont want.

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this! if they know what's going on then I'm sure they expect it

your day - your rules

If they will in ANY WAY put a damper on your big day, then screw em.

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Posted by FutureMrsPanuch

If you really dont want them at your wedding, dont send them an invite... i know technically you should since you sent them an STD, but its your wedding, do what makes you happiest!!!

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ITA with this!

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Posted by mybabylovesmoi

It's one thing if you sent STD's to a bunch of people and then decided you couldn't afford all of them or kinda lost touch for a few months - then it's rude if you take back the invite since people may have saved the date.

But in circumstances where there is a falling out, a fight, bad blood etc I don't think the person should get an invite or is expecting one. That is my opinion.

for example, If a friend turned out to be a huge slutty b iatch and showed her na na to FH - would you send her an invite to observe ettiquette?? helll noooo!

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LMAO!!! i love your example! but I agree with anney - don't send an invite

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Posted by MrsRtoBe11

i think that situations change, and if this person knows that there is something going on, then odds are they prob are figuring they wont be invited. i know 'etiquitte' (see, i cant even spell it, lol) says you would still send them an invite, but i wont invite anyone who i dont want.

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ITA

its your day you make the decisions

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Posted by mybabylovesmoi

It's one thing if you sent STD's to a bunch of people and then decided you couldn't afford all of them or kinda lost touch for a few months - then it's rude if you take back the invite since people may have saved the date.

But in circumstances where there is a falling out, a fight, bad blood etc I don't think the person should get an invite or is expecting one. That is my opinion.

for example, If a friend turned out to be a huge slutty b iatch and showed her na na to FH - would you send her an invite to observe ettiquette?? helll noooo!

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