do i need to stay & help mom/dad clean up after the wedding or can i take the shuttle with the bridal party to the hotel? i think my parents are under the impression that im staying to help them.....not sure what the right thing to do is.....help! thanks!
kimnsteve
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I think you should be going with the bridal party ....is it your day and I don't think you should be cleaning at the end of the night especially in a beautiful dress!
cindyandkevin
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Honestly, my mom didn't even have to clean anything up. DH and I left in the limo for our hotel and our Bridal Attendant was busy packing everything up for us. She even put everything into my mom's car for her!!
leshellem
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I don't think you should have to stay. Get on the bus and get to your hotel.
DandS
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Posted by cindyandkevin
Honestly, my mom didn't even have to clean anything up. DH and I left in the limo for our hotel and our Bridal Attendant was busy packing everything up for us. She even put everything into my mom's car for her!!
That is the impression I was under that would be done for my wedding as well. I thought that the bridal attendants take care of everything for you.
LBride
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my brother and sister both got married this year. Their halls put all their stuff together and they picked it up the next morning
ant n tilde
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i think you should just leave - its YOUR day!
metmymatch
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you should talk with them about that. my sister and i talked before her wedding and i agreed for fh & i to stay behind for the clean-up. and now she's going to do the same for mine. do you have another family member (or two) that you can ask to help?
bellaex23
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we're asking a couple of my more reliable cousins to help at the end, theyre more like my brothers, so im sure they wont mind.....i just really want to go back with everyone & dont think i should ask them to help for another 1/2 hr.....or do u think i should??? the weddings over at 1230, the shuttles coming at 1245.....think i should just have the shuttle come at 1 so they can help too? (but i dont want to!) lol
SummerBride06
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your parents don't have to clean anything up. they do everything for you. you might want to hang around for a few more minutes just to look around before you leave your wedding for good. that's what we did.
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when my sister got married, North Ritz did it all for her....by the time the last gust left and they said all their goodbyes......the BM and BA had it all set and ready to go!