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Again with my FSIL and FMIL FIrst the wedding now this

Original post by ITALIANBELLA

Sorry for the long vent so my FH and I have found a beaitufil little house to live in queens. We put the bid on the house and they accepted our offer. We are really excited even though we are getting married in october the asking price and everthing was perfect so we are currenly under contract. So we shared tne news with his family and this is for people who dont know his sister planned a wedding two months before us even though we were engaged first. But anyway so now his mother tells me she upsed bc his sister hasnt found a place to live and they saw a house but someone bid higher this was last friday. Now out of nowhere my FH says his sister got the house and is closing in september. I just don't understand it's like she is in compettion or something?? how come everytime we do something she comes right after and does this. i am so fed up with them all of them. I have to learn not to let it bother me so I want to send out save the dates bc we did planned our wedding first and his sister decides to go two months before us. is it too early to send them?? But now my thing is as soon as she sees me send it out she willl sned them out a week later its like get a life already ughhh

LatinaVix Posted:

Re: Again with my FSIL and FMIL FIrst the wedding now this

Jealos Ones Envy.. Don't stoop to her level and NEVER let her know that she's bothered you.

CNC4eva3402 Posted:

Re: Again with my FSIL and FMIL FIrst the wedding now this

Shes clearly jealous. I would send out your STDs ASAP...always stay a step ahead of her..

I'm sorry you have to deal with this..jealous people are so annoying!
OY Posted:

Re: Again with my FSIL and FMIL FIrst the wedding now this

i'm in similar situation. my FH got engaged, bought a new car and decided on a sept wedding. then his older bro got engaged got a new car and planned a sept wedding (two weeks ahead of ours).

i know it bugs you, it definitely bugged me, but its OK... dont rush things bcs u feel that you want to beat them to it... take ur time, plan your details because all the rushing is going to mess it all up -- it'll even stress you out even more, and everything will totally feel like a competition-- then u'll end up disliking them. totally not worth it! ignore it and focus on yourself and your planning.

do what i do, IGNORE THEM :)

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