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Age cut off for wedding guest

tonilynnLI Posted:

Age cut off for wedding guest

My FH wants to have an age cut off at the wedding. He thinks anyone under the age of 13 should not be invited, I think this is so wrong. Is anyone else having a cut off age.

Sunrise813 Posted:

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No guest under 10!

johnsae Posted:

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14 is the youngest at ours, besides the FG And RB

MrsWmson2be Posted:

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Posted by tonilynnLI

My FH wants to have an age cut off at the wedding. He thinks anyone under the age of 13 should not be invited, I think this is so wrong. Is anyone else having a cut off age.



It depends on how close the child is to you. Nieces and nephews is ok with us, but we didn't invite any other children.
Tiggeruth Posted:

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We have no age cut off, there will most likely be infants at my wedding

angnick Posted:

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we couldnt.. most of my first cousins are under the age of 18, so it was really hard.

kittythestray Posted:

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I think it's a personal decision, we didn't want any children at our wedding, so we said no one under 18.

tonilynnLI Posted:

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i feel the same way, most of the people don't live in Long island, so for them it is hard to travel with out there kids
October Bliss Posted:

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Unless the child is old enough to understand the meaning of having a wedding they are not invited. For us, I think that worked out to age 10.

elliottluva Posted:

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No guests under 16. We're having a night wedding.

JennylovesBrian Posted:

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it was 13 for us.

N.Y.bride Posted:

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I did 18 because my family is HUUUUUUUGE. 4 were younger but they were in the bridal party. I have about 30 first cousins under 18 that live in Nassau County but I wanted an adult party and could not afford to pay for them all either.

It really depends on what you want.
sd9403 Posted:

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I wanted to invite my cousins but there were just too many.
I didn't want to invite some and not others. I didn't want to start a WAR!! And yes it is so expensive and we wanted to keep it small. But I'm sure we all know that is hard.

Jen2999 Posted:

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Posted by kittythestray

I think it's a personal decision, we didn't want any children at our wedding, so we said no one under 18.




ditto
TaraJohn Posted:

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no-one under 18

beautyq115 Posted:

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Youngest is 15....Its one of my cousins...her whole family is invited so I couldn't exclude her

MJDoc12 Posted:

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FH and i are having a similiar issue...both of us come from large families and have siblings that have small children. we figure it's an all or nothing thing---either we let them alllll bring their children (about 17 kids under the age of 14) or no one gets to bring a kid

we're still debating--but we believe it will be adults only. (18+)
Bigbroad555 Posted:

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the only kids that are coming to our reception at 60.00 a pop is the bridal party kids and my cousins kids which are 2 extra can you imagine..

GsCM4EVA Posted:

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No one under 21

jax1023 Posted:

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No one under 18, except our flower girl(9) and FH's first cousin (14). No other kids allowed, not that that's exlcuding more than like 3 people in our family's

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