Yesteday, was the BM's appt to order there dresses. But, since their was a storm watch and some of the girls had to travel from different boros I decided the best thing was to re-schedule. So, we decided to go next Saturday. When I called the last BM she stated that next Sat. wasn't good for her can we still go today. It was only 2pm and the snow wasn't really coming down so I said ok. Called the salon and they said no problem. Now, mind you my BM had seen the dress and knew the color I was using which is pink. We get to the store and she gets measured. The sales rep brings out the dress to show her and the winch says to me, 'Is that the dress' Uh, yes heifer you've seen it already. She tells me that her cousin used the same color for her wedding and because she didn't approve of the color her cousin had to change it. Well, your cousin is an idiot. I told her this is the color and thats that. She told me that she couldn't wear that color because it doesn't go well with her skin tone and if I change the color then everything will be ok. I told her no again. She told me that I was being inconsiderate of her feelings and that she can't do it. She says to me is everyone else ok with the color and said yes they are. Well, I'm sorry I'm not. And, she didn't leave a deposit. I blasted her so bad in the store because you made me come out for nothing. I don't know why she would do something like that to me. My MOH said she had no intentions of being in the wedding but why would someone go so far as going to the salon just to say how you really feel. People are so freakin cruel.
Now, I'm minus one BM.
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I just posted about almost the same situation. THEY COMPLAIN TOO MUCH...ITS NOT THEIR DAY!!! Damn it. You dont need her or her negativity. She thinks she can get her way, but it doesnt work like that.
Better off without her because I am sure your other girls are extactic and willing to do wutever u ask to make u happy for your big day.!
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That's crazy!!!! It's better that this happened now instead of some crazy crap that she may pull on YOUR BIG DAY!!!!
I'm sure you will find someone else to fill that spot.....On to the next BM
Good Luck
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woooow. i would have punched her too.
so is she not in the wedding now??
post a pic of the dress please, and the color. im curious.
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Truuue Good BMs shouldn't complain!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
futuremrsjc2010
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Wow I would just kick her out its not her day its yours and why should you have to change your color scheme for her, that's insane!!
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Posted by Nichole2010
woooow. i would have punched her too.
so is she not in the wedding now??
post a pic of the dress please, and the color. im curious.
Here is a picture of the dress
Swatch( It's really hard to see because it's so tiny.
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futuremrsjc2010
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I love that dress
Diana508
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She's crazy, that dress is beautiful!!!
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Posted by Jayla127
VENT!
Yesteday, was the BM's appt to order there dresses. But, since their was a storm watch and some of the girls had to travel from different boros I decided the best thing was to re-schedule. So, we decided to go next Saturday. When I called the last BM she stated that next Sat. wasn't good for her can we still go today. It was only 2pm and the snow wasn't really coming down so I said ok. Called the salon and they said no problem. Now, mind you my BM had seen the dress and knew the color I was using which is pink. We get to the store and she gets measured. The sales rep brings out the dress to show her and the winch says to me, 'Is that the dress' Uh, yes heifer you've seen it already. She tells me that her cousin used the same color for her wedding and because she didn't approve of the color her cousin had to change it. Well, your cousin is an idiot. I told her this is the color and thats that. She told me that she couldn't wear that color because it doesn't go well with her skin tone and if I change the color then everything will be ok. I told her no again. She told me that I was being inconsiderate of her feelings and that she can't do it. She says to me is everyone else ok with the color and said yes they are. Well, I'm sorry I'm not. And, she didn't leave a deposit. I blasted her so bad in the store because you made me come out for nothing. I don't know why she would do something like that to me. My MOH said she had no intentions of being in the wedding but why would someone go so far as going to the salon just to say how you really feel. People are so freakin cruel.
Now, I'm minus one BM.
One of mine did the same thing. She even asked me to change the color to red so that it would go with her complexion. I am keeping my color. Its my wedding. YOu did the right thing. Haha...I wonder if they are sisters.
I love that dress BTW. The color is gorgeous.
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Is she kidding???? Seriously over a color??? You're better off without her, I have a feeling she would be nothing but trouble for you.
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Wow
I can't believe someone would ask you to change the color of the BM dresses for your wedding.
Good riddance!
Edited for spelling.
little j
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omg how sickly vain can a person be. yikes! you r better off
flairforfashion
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Eff her! She isn't worth it if she is trying to pull that crap!
mrsdraskin2009
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Wow Jayla!!! She sounds like a complete idiot!!!!
What a loser!!!!
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WOW, so sorry you had to go through that. But you're definitely better off with her getting out now. Don't let her ruin your planning, it's all about you!!! When its her wedding she can pick her own colors.
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holy crap that is ridiculous! sound like she is very confused as to whose day it is! i'm sorry
kris_gets_hitched
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That's insanity. You're better off without her in your BP. for having to deal with that crappola.
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What a f*ing biatch!!! It's good that you minused that heffa!! I swear, one of the hardest things of planning a wedding is dealing with biotches in your bridal party!! She never mean you no good!! Women can be so hard to deal with!!! Guys never have these issues!!! She needed to be b$tch slapped!!
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OMG!!! Why the heck would you change the color for her. What is wrong with people!!! You are def better off without her!!