Yesteday, was the BM's appt to order there dresses. But, since their was a storm watch and some of the girls had to travel from different boros I decided the best thing was to re-schedule. So, we decided to go next Saturday. When I called the last BM she stated that next Sat. wasn't good for her can we still go today. It was only 2pm and the snow wasn't really coming down so I said ok. Called the salon and they said no problem. Now, mind you my BM had seen the dress and knew the color I was using which is pink. We get to the store and she gets measured. The sales rep brings out the dress to show her and the winch says to me, 'Is that the dress' Uh, yes heifer you've seen it already. She tells me that her cousin used the same color for her wedding and because she didn't approve of the color her cousin had to change it. Well, your cousin is an idiot. I told her this is the color and thats that. She told me that she couldn't wear that color because it doesn't go well with her skin tone and if I change the color then everything will be ok. I told her no again. She told me that I was being inconsiderate of her feelings and that she can't do it. She says to me is everyone else ok with the color and said yes they are. Well, I'm sorry I'm not. And, she didn't leave a deposit. I blasted her so bad in the store because you made me come out for nothing. I don't know why she would do something like that to me. My MOH said she had no intentions of being in the wedding but why would someone go so far as going to the salon just to say how you really feel. People are so freakin cruel.
Now, I'm minus one BM.
halfbaked
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woooow. i would have punched her too.
so is she not in the wedding now??
post a pic of the dress please, and the color. im curious.
Here is a picture of the dress
Swatch( It's really hard to see because it's so tiny.
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That's insane!! And it's such a gorgeous dress!!
Nina1010
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unbelievable. Not a good move on her part. What's the big deal anyway? It's not her day... I don't get it. This is what a friend does...put on a dress they may or may not like (for whatever reason), grin and bear it. Its not worth jeapordizing a friendship for.
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Hey date twin, I'm sorry you had to deal with that. I had a similar prob but instead of the color it was the style of the dress. I showed my girls the dress before we went to the store and one of my bms waited until them to complain about how the dress was going to make her look awful, she even started to cry in the store. They all went ahead and paid for their dresses but the fact that this one bm made such a big deal about it pissed me off. The sad thing is that weeks after we ordered the dresses 1 by 1 all of my bms started to complain about of the. I don't know why they didnt say something before. Some ppl are just stupid i guess.
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I kinda thought it was understood that when you are a BM...your personal feelings, opinions and preferences didnt really matter...it was all the brides decision. Sounds like she really didnt have any desire to be in the wedding anyway...you are better off without her...sorry she put you through that.
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I just looked at your dress....she is crazy!!! That dress is gorgeous!!