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Always a Bridesmaid- ever feel that way?

michesq Posted:

Always a Bridesmaid- ever feel that way?

Ever have that feeling prior to getting engaged?

I can say never did- was in a few weddings but always happy for couple and may have imagined my day but never said something like why her and not me.

In fact, i thought my little sis would be engaged b4 me and was excited about it but i got engaged first.
FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted:

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I was never a BM.... So the 1st wedding I will be in will be my own .... But my poor cousin has been in sooo soooo many and she feels like 27 dresses is ALL about her
Marissa09Bride Posted:

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I was only a BM twice, so I never felt that way

flairforfashion Posted:

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I never felt this way. I have been in a few weddings and enjoyed it. I knew my time would come!

ellyoxox Posted:

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i've never felt that way. the first wedding i was in was a few months ago and i enjoyed it.

but i definitely get the feeling that my moh feels that way, which kind of bothers me a little bit. like sometimes i feel like she's not genuinely excited for me
Im a Pepper Posted:

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i was never in a wedding party and out of my groups of friends i'm one of the first to be getting married.

RobNCyn Posted:

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omg. . . I was only a BM once BUT I felt that way ALL the time. . . like 'Why isn't it me?'

B/c all the weddings I went to (all my cousins - and I have a few). . . they were all dating for much less time than FH and I were at the time of their engagement. And NO they were NOT all much older than me! But FH finally decided to pop the question and now everyone is . . . releived.
GiantsBride Posted:

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I did kind of feel that way for a bit. am the oldest out of my work friends, and the last to get married. When we all started hanging out, most of us were just dating our FH/DH and as time went on all of them started getting married and FH and I were still trying to figure out the long distance thing. It wasn't that I wasn't happy for them, it was just hard because I was so unsure of my future and being at their functions only reminded me of what I was hoping for in my own life and what I wasn't sure was ever going to come to fruition.

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