I'm a bit down right now...FH has his bach party this weekend - the entire weekend, Fri to Sun - and I texted my BMs to see if they would want to hang out on Sat night. I have limited funds with the wedding so I offered up our place, since it's FH-less, and suggested pizza and wine. One of my BMs is single and wants to go to a bar on Bell, so my other BM is trying to convince me to go to the bar after I told them I have no money. I told them I didn't want to be alone this weekend, and I feel like my friend can give up one weekend of hitting the bars to keep me company.
Am I being witchy or should I just get over this? Sigh....
Vent over.
grkbarbie
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come to bellllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll
im going saturday probably..
peer pressure
stacey516
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You are not being a bridezilla! You just want to be with your friends
IheartDanger1023
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Maybe I'm a bridezilla for thinking that they should be treating you to drinks! You shouldn't need a dime...especially if they're insisting.
SoontobeGallagher
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Tell them you will go if they pay for your drinks!
celticbride
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If your FH is able to afford to go away all weekend for his BP then you should be able to treat yourself.
My FH is on his this weekend too so I have planned a fun filled weekend even though my BP is over.
fdnybride163
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honest if I was your BM and i was in this situation~ I WOULD PAY FOR YOUR DRINKS! you can go out and have one or two and I would think that your friends would be able to afford to buy you a drink to celebrate your wedding....
ourwedding9510
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Why not go out and just not drink while you are out? Pre-game before you go! I think the girls should give up one night out and hang in with you but if you don't want to be alone and they want to go out, it's almost like you can't really ask them to cancel their plans for the night. If they don't have plans, then just tell him straight up 'I don't have the money to go out, I'm just staying home and would like you to stay with me and have a girls night in with pizza, wine, and a movie.' Sounds like my kind of night!
