Am I being a Bridezilla???

Original post by jessie32783

Sep 20, 2006 01:42 PM

Hey guys-- here's the scenario. I set up one of my bridesmaid with an old family friend. They've been together for about a month and already are talking about getting married.

I'm getting married in October and now she wants to get married in the end of august, barely a month and a half before mine. The problem is the wedding is out of state and im in the bridal party.

They're not even engaged. Am i being crazy by being upset and thinking that the situation is a bit inconsiderate?

Trishthedish Posted: Sep 20, 2006 05:04 PM

Re: Am I being a Bridezilla???

Posted by FallBride05

honestly?

I think it's a bit premature to be bothered by this, your wedding is still two years away, and they aren't even engaged.

I also think that so what if she wants to get married in august. Should she get engaged and wants to plan her wedding in August, I don't see what the big deal is JMHO.

Your wedding is your own and hers will be hers.

I agree with this too. Just be patient and see what happens. You can't make her change her date if she does get married in August. We have no control over what other peoples plans in life are. In the meantime, just enjoy planning your wedding!!