Am I being too picky with hair jewelry?

Thanks to MarcellaBella, I went to the accessory stores that she mentioned in the 30's, on 6th Ave.
The best one was the Metropolitan Implex, which had veils starting $35, which is where I plan to order mine, once I get my dress in and figure out what I want as for the veil. Implex was the only store that had the hair accessories that i was looking for, but none that I liked... They had a ton of nice tiara's, but I look horrible in them

So I wonder if any of you girls saw these off-line (because I would like to see if they will look ok on me - i.e. try them on in a store)

http://www.glamgal.com/jewelry2.html
BA1812
BAC222, except with a single pearl at the very top of the pin

http://www.glamgal.com/jewelry3.html
AA2075 or AA2089 style, but with a EK157 type of comb - i.e. many 'teeth' not just two.

I don't want to use a tiara, and would like to have one larger size accessory on each side of the head, with smaller pearls around the main portion of updo... I plan to have a low updo, kind of at the back of the head, not at the top.

I have searched online, but glamgirl so far has had the best selections to suit my taste. I just wish I could try them on!!!

Thank you
Alina