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Am I crazy?

Wendy Posted:

Am I crazy?

I posted last week that I had several job interviews scheduled. Yesterday I was offered one of those positions and I just called and turned it down!!!

Am I crazy???? The company had fantastic benefits and the salary was good, but I was very concerned about the company being around in a year or two from now. I am wondering what you all think.

In conversations that I had with the HR Director, department head and other people who work within the department I learned that there have been several layoffs during the last 2 years. The first floor of the building is half empty!!! It is so empty that they are moving all the executive offices from the second floor to the first and renting out the top floor of the building. They are also closing down two other locations and consolidating all their operations into this one. All of the people in those locations are losing their jobs .

I would have been the first person this company hired in 2 years and only because the person in the position I was filling moved out of state. I had lunch with some of the people I would be working with and I heard not one positive thing about the company yet 2 of them had been there for more than 20 years and the other 15 years.

After discussing with DH I decided that I wasn't going to take the position. I would rather have something more stable. Did I make the right decision? Just curious what you ladies would do.
Misty Posted:

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I don't think you're crazy....the old adage is 'last in, first out'...if you weren't secure now..you'd never be!
Marnles Posted:

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Wendy - I don't think you are crazy - I would have done the same thing!! I'm sure your DH agreed!! Good luck with continuing the process!
OctBride05 Posted:

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i don't think your crazy. i think you did the right thing.

shelzyp Posted:

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The only way I would say you were crazy if not taking the job, meant you couldn't eat or keep a roof over your head.

MrsBtoBe2005 Posted:

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I think you did the right thing. I would do the same thing because I'm sure something with stability will come up soon.

Danielle&Scott Posted:

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Sounds like you applied to the company I work at....

jvs77 Posted:

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It sounds like you made the right choice!

What-Now Posted:

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I think you made the right decision! Sometimes your gut felling will tell you what to do, and if you got a negative impression then it's better to stay away! Better luck in the future!
Leelee Posted:

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Wendy...I admire your decision to turn it down. I've taken jobs 'just because' and usually end up in a upsetting environment. I think it was a very solid and good move and I know you'll going to find the perfect place soon!
Olgaki Posted:

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I think you did the right thing!
Wendy Posted:

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Thanks ladies! I know I made the right decision for me, but you know how those second thoughts come creeping in. I even went so far yesterday of making a list of the pros and cons. It's hard to turn down a job in these times, because you never know when the opportunity will come again. But as Leelee said I didn't want to take it 'Just because'. My DH is 100% behind me (he would have to listen to me complain if things didn't work out) and he felt too that it would not have been a good place for me to work.

So the job search continues. At least I know that I am still very marketable even with the fact that I have been out of work for more than 8 months. That makes me feel better!!!
chmlengr Posted:

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Wendy - you are definitely not crazy!! I would have done the same thing. And since you have hubby's support, then don'tt hink twice about it!!

I have left 2 companies in my relatively short 8-year career mainly because they were merging and downsizing was always a threat. Plus, they were in the city and I wanted so badly to get out adn work close to home.

Keep your chin up and know you made the right decision. Good Luck as your search continues.
kmcwed Posted:

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Not crazy, Wendy....... SMART!!!!
Diane Posted:

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I think you did the right thing
swags1016 Posted:

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I think you made the right decision sweetie!!! Your gut will never stear you wrong!!

Julybaby Posted:

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It sounds like if you took this job, you would be going through the same job-search thing a year from now. You need something a bit more stable.

Wendy Posted:

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Thanks again everyone. I know it was the right thing to do but hearing that everyone else thinks so too is very comforting!!
swags1016 Posted:

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Incase no one told you today Wendy -

You are awesome!
Julybaby Posted:

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DH's company is going downhill pretty fast and his boss also got a great job offer with a company that is new and not too stable. This boss was not sure if this new company would be around in two years, so he turned down this job because he wanted a job that would be around longer than two years. Who wants to think about going through the interview process again right after getting a new job?

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