am i overreacting? MORE

mdawg Posted: Feb 25, 2008 10:26 PM

am i overreacting? MORE

****************THIS WAS POSTED A SUPER LONG TIME AGO... PROBLEM SOLVED A LONGGGG TIME AGO...************

blah, long story short,... he got really sick, i took care of him for like 4 days...

he was gonna go to work friday but his car isnt good in the snow, so i was gonna drive him, so i slept there thursday night. he decided not to go to work friday, so i left his house to go do some stuff that needed to get done for the wedding i was in on saturday...

since i left his house, weve MAYBE talked for 10 minutes...

hes acting kinda shady and like he wants nothing to do with me...

so i talked to him today and said 'maybe im overreacting or retarded or something but i feel like you want nothing to do with me ever since friday...'

and he goes, 'well youre retarded and overreacting. youve got nothing to worry about.'

and then he went to go watch a movie...

like yeah i know im really sick (i have a bad cough), but i was there allllll the time when he was sick... i feel like he shoudlve offered to take care of me or something... i know he worked all day and has work tomorrow, but at least be a little nicer... blah.

he says i have nothing to worry about... but do i?

tinadansr Posted: Feb 25, 2008 10:28 PM

Re: am i overreacting?

no he's jsut being a guy

they get stoopid when they are sick!

Don't read into it

mrsdraskin2009 Posted: Feb 25, 2008 10:30 PM

Re: am i overreacting?

uhhh....boys are stooooopid and NEVER do what we want them to do!!!!!!!

i'd probably not worry so much unless i KNEW something was up, like a fight or a specific incident. most boys don't think they're doing anything wrong and we think they are blowing us off...and i'd chalk it up his stooooopidity...

MRSin2009 Posted: Feb 25, 2008 10:32 PM

Re: am i overreacting?

Oh tell me about it! I have a double ear infection and bronchitis and FH didnt do anything to help not even clean up after himself! So now he is sick with an ear infection and is making moaning noises and and is asking me to do things for him and I am a laughing at him because I am still sick myself. They love love love to be taken care of but when the other way around they forget what we do for them!

mrsdraskin2009 Posted: Feb 25, 2008 10:32 PM

Re: am i overreacting?

Posted by tinadansr

no he's jsut being a guy

they get stoopid when they are sick!

Don't read into it

WOWOW!!! we both used STOOOPID and posted at the same time great minds DO think alike!

longislandlibrarian Posted: Feb 25, 2008 10:32 PM

Re: am i overreacting?

It's hard to tell because I don't know him.. but I would be feeling the same way kinda like... I took care of you.. how about if you take care of me just a lil? you are going to have to see how he acts..... and just take it one day at a time.. but remember to go with your gut.. and follow your heart...

mdawg Posted: Feb 25, 2008 10:38 PM

Re: am i overreacting?

ughhh now he signed on and asked me if im okay, and that he just wanted to make sure..

and then he said 'we'll hang out tomorrow... you really miss me that much?'

like what the hell you stupid a.s.s.h.a.t why the hell would you ask that question.

so i said 'well i do miss you, but maybe i shouldn't...'

and then he goes 'alright no more mushy stuff... im gonna go watch this movie before its too late'

SOOO incredibly frustrating. maybe he did it for the ego boost.

HES DRIVING ME BANANA SANDWICH

GinaBambina08 Posted: Feb 25, 2008 10:48 PM

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Posted by mdawg

ughhh now he signed on and asked me if im okay, and that he just wanted to make sure..

and then he said 'we'll hang out tomorrow... you really miss me that much?'

like what the hell you stupid a.s.s.h.a.t why the hell would you ask that question.

so i said 'well i do miss you, but maybe i shouldn't...'

and then he goes 'alright no more mushy stuff... im gonna go watch this movie before its too late'

SOOO incredibly frustrating. maybe he did it for the ego boost.

HES DRIVING ME BANANA SANDWICH

If I were you, i'd play his little game right back and show him that he's not needed in your life...as it is now, he probably thinks he has hand (watch seinfeld? ) and you kind of have to show him that he's not needed, but 'preferred' When FH and I were having our little problems in the beginning of our relationship, he started acting shady just like that, and the moment he had the small hint that he 'might' lose me, he got himself together and acted right.... Honestly, I think it's a man thing...they like when women keep them on their toes..especially in the beginning...

tinadansr Posted: Feb 25, 2008 10:58 PM

Re: am i overreacting? MORE

Posted by mdawg

ughhh now he signed on and asked me if im okay, and that he just wanted to make sure..

and then he said 'we'll hang out tomorrow... you really miss me that much?'

like what the hell you stupid a.s.s.h.a.t why the hell would you ask that question.

so i said 'well i do miss you, but maybe i shouldn't...'

and then he goes 'alright no more mushy stuff... im gonna go watch this movie before its too late'

SOOO incredibly frustrating. maybe he did it for the ego boost.

HES DRIVING ME BANANA SANDWICH

Sounds like he wasnt some space ..... So give it right back to him!