whose fiance does NOT want to help with planning?? My FH only wanted to see the hall b4 we paid the deposit, saw the band I chose, and wnats to choose menu. Anything else he said just tell me how much. I guess men are not interested in flowers and linens and such am I the only one dealing with this???
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I have to say my FH is like a girl sometimes...he he...he is so into the planning and has come with me on every appointment for all vendors...
RudysMom
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My FH is super involved - he's even concerned with the dress and color the bridesmaids will be wearing! I'm happy he's so into it but it makes every decisions much more complicated.
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No don't worry my FH is making me do all the planning too. He came with me on a few things but this wedding planning is just not him.
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Mine could care less. We went this weekend to meet with some florists and I could hear him huffing and puffing the whole way. Needless to say, we only met with one
Mine dosen't help and I preferre it that way. When I ask an opinion he gives it to me and that's about it. If it were up to him we would be having a BBQ in the backyard with kegs of beer and wings
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Alex didnt get much of a say so being I did alot of the planning on my own since we live out of state now. He did do limos,tuxs,final arragements for CP and our menus....but thats about it! I think he would of liked to be a little more involved but it was hard being he wasnt here in NY!
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my fh is involved in certain things......he's not good at giving me addresses and names, but we have planned everything else together! i do the research first of corse!
eperlman
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Nope... mine is like that too. I pretty much picked every vendor then he'd come with me to talk with them and take over the whole thing when I did all the work... Oh... and he still hasn't even sent out all his Thank You Cards from our Engagement Party, which was back in August. It's so embarassing, but he won't let me do it either.
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my FH isnt that involved. though when i make a decision and finalize it. he then has input. otherwise he says its your wedding do what you want.. unless his mom has an opinion then its her way or no way. so welcome o LIW we will help you plan your wedding.
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mine is 100% involved,, he wants to be & i like it that way ,, Its his wedding too !!!
