am i the only one?

that cringes at the thought of a surprise bridal shower--- my mom wanted it to be a surprise, but im the type that i want my hair done, my makeup, its not the surprise its the dirty hair that i would totally flip at

so shes all mad that i dont want a surprise and fianlly told me when- i just want to be dressed appropriately, i know you can give someone your dress, i want my hair done right, my makeup on, i feel like therepictures im going to have forever---- isnt the surprise thing a little, well really, who has a surprise shower nowadays

am i being a brat? alll i wanted to know was what day, where and eveything about it can be surprise, as long as im dressed and i like the way i look ill b happy haha