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Am I the only one...

Soon2BMrsJoeBear Posted:

Am I the only one...

That doesn't care what dresses their BMs wear? I honestly don't care as long as 1. they all love them, 2. they can all afford them, and 3. they are an eggplant color. Am i nuts??!!

HeatherLynna Posted:

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You are not nuts! You are VERY nice! My cousin is the same way! I, however, am not. I want them all to be happy, butttttt I'm a tad more demanding.
Melissa1012 Posted:

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Nope!!! I feel the same way, I thought I was crazy!

PazzaRagazza Posted:

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nope!!!! my girls picked the dress-- as a matter of fact i said no to it once and then another bm picked up the dress!!! They all like it theyre all happy-- and now i cant find the dress anywhere!!!!! LOL

Soon2BMrsJoeBear Posted:

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Posted by PazzaRagazza

nope!!!! my girls picked the dress-- as a matter of fact i said no to it once and then another bm picked up the dress!!! They all like it theyre all happy-- and now i cant find the dress anywhere!!!!! LOL



LOL I told my MOH's to pick it out and said 'That way the rest of the BMs can be pissed at you guys if they hate it'
VCanizalez Posted:

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That is very nice of u...

I want them to b confi with the dress but I want to like the dress to...
BrideAS Posted:

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you are not nuts. all my bridesmaids are really pretty (lol, seriously though), so i know they're going to look great no matter what. BM dresses are so far down on my list

Im getting Married Posted:

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Nope not crazy..I'm pretty sure all my girls will be in different dresses.

Only need to be black, floor length and not satin. Otherwise it will be a free for all
FutureJOC Posted:

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ehhh I cared a little - I wanted them all to have the same dress and wanted it to be knee length. But any detailss other than that I didn't care (material, strapless, one shoulder, etc). I love the dress that they all agreed on though. It's going to look great on all of them and it's def. a dress they all said they would get use out of after the wedding.

Soon2BMrsJoeBear Posted:

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I definitely want them to look great, but not better than me hahahhaa

I did see one i liked (an Alvina Valenta), but my bm wore it in another wedding and she looked better than the bride!!! that's def not allowed to happen!!
MrsRtoBe11 Posted:

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iam doing eggplant also!
but i let ONE of my bridemaids pick the dress, my bff is the cutest, she got married 3 years ago, and shes never been a bm, so she cried when i asked her and i said 'u can pick the dress'
Soon2BMrsJoeBear Posted:

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Posted by MrsRtoBe11

iam doing eggplant also!
but i let ONE of my bridemaids pick the dress, my bff is the cutest, she got married 3 years ago, and shes never been a bm, so she cried when i asked her and i said 'u can pick the dress'



aw, that's so sweet!!
K0ddie Posted:

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Posted by HeatherLynna

You are not nuts! You are VERY nice! My cousin is the same way! I, however, am not. I want them all to be happy, butttttt I'm a tad more demanding.





Same here!
andreahowie2011 Posted:

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No, that's great!! One less detail to stress over is good!!

SoontoBMrsS Posted:

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I don't think you are nuts! I am doing the same. The only stipulation was that I would like them to wear a long dress in either an eggplant or plum color. Otherwise they can pick what they want because I want them to be comfortable and happy!

amandamichael Posted:

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i let the girls pick the dress, i picked the color, i thought that was fair, they ended up with a dress they all liked so it all worked thankfully, but yea i hear ya, why stress about yet another thing

but i definately would want to over see the whole process
Soon2BMrsJoeBear Posted:

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Posted by SoontoBMrsS

I don't think you are nuts! I am doing the same. The only stipulation was that I would like them to wear a long dress in either an eggplant or plum color. Otherwise they can pick what they want because I want them to be comfortable and happy!



same with meeee!!! too funny!!
harts2976 Posted:

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No! I basically went with them wanting either yellow or pink--- when yellow didnt work we went with pink... they liked 2-- I told them to pick.. boom done. Love it. Didn't order it yet b/c I didnt pick mine out yet but once I do they are ordering!

here It is

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