Am I the only one that gets so upset, stressed and depressed enough to want to cancel my wedding sometimes?? Ugh idk what it is but I am at a point where I seriously cannot handle anymore drama I might explode. Im just crying myself to sleep tonight and fh was like, all this drama for what?? I got even more upset and he took me home. ( we don't live together yet) idk if it's pms or what but I feel like crying all night and I'm so damn depressed about the wedding. I'm sick of everyone's drama, like when does someone ever say and how are you!!! Or wow that's a cute idea !! It's always oh u can't do that, or they won't wAnna do that. I seriously dont care Anymore I'm just going to cancel everything, go to city hall, and go on our honeymoon ;) thanks end vent.
Irishbride16
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AWW dont do that...trust me i hear you...it sucks alot ..but remember dont let anyone upset you to that point ..sometimes you just have to let it go ( i know its hard ) but really not worth the stress....feel better and we r all here for you!
TeAmoChris
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no your not the only one, this is a happy and stressful crazy time. Remember to breathe and try to only think about making your FH and yourself happy on this big day...no one else. Your family and friends, you can't please them all.
AlexandMike2012
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You're not alone...I have high's and low's with this wedding planning all the time...and 'other people' don't help with their comments and 'suggestions'....I agree that you can't please them all..it's you and FH's day!
roblisa09
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I totally understand you. I've even gone as far as calling vendors and telling them that I might need to cancel and what can I do to get my deposits back. When FH found out what I did, he had to sit down and talk to me and get me back on track. It is very overwhelming so you are definitely not alone. This is YOUR wedding and you're doing this for you and your FH. Do every little detail and idea you have and live it up to the fullest!!! **Hugs**
P.S. And no more crying, save those tears for something else not stress, it's not worth it
redrose0605
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You're not alone. People think they are being nice and suggesting ideas and all it ends up is making me question mine & FH's decisions. Everyone has a different opinion about everything. You just have to tell them all to shut it (at least in your head).
Plus, my parents are divorced and don't get along, so trying to get everyone on the same page has not been that easy.
Take deep breaths, talk to your FH and you'll get through it.
kdm822
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awww.. forget what everyone says.. your wedding you guys make the rules. If you dont want to listen to the drama dont tell them the details I stopped telling people with stupid comments any details.
