Am I the only one that gets so upset, stressed and depressed enough to want to cancel my wedding sometimes?? Ugh idk what it is but I am at a point where I seriously cannot handle anymore drama I might explode. Im just crying myself to sleep tonight and fh was like, all this drama for what?? I got even more upset and he took me home. ( we don't live together yet) idk if it's pms or what but I feel like crying all night and I'm so damn depressed about the wedding. I'm sick of everyone's drama, like when does someone ever say and how are you!!! Or wow that's a cute idea !! It's always oh u can't do that, or they won't wAnna do that. I seriously dont care Anymore I'm just going to cancel everything, go to city hall, and go on our honeymoon ;) thanks end vent.
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awwww don't do that!! I'm sorry to hear you're having such a difficult time dealing with other peoples drama, but you have to remember that it's THEIR drama and not yours.
I do get like that sometimes tho when I think about FH's family and worrying about everyone else. I always say 'well f-it we might as well just elope', but I know that if I did that I wouldn't be as happy.
Hang in there!!
blondybride
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Thanks! At least I have u girls to back me up lol
Supermans
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I'm with ya lady!!! It's amazing how many people think your wedding should be all about them.
blondybride
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Thanks! At least I have u girls to back me up lol To make everything worse my fh just got a really amazing job offer in Orlando FL and although my family has a second home there it is really stressful bc now that he will be there and I won't for the next year, I have to deal with everything by myself now and I'm super sad about him leaving this Sunday, I've never been away from him for more than a week :(Thanks! At least I have u girls to back me up lol To make everything worse my fh just got a really amazing job offer in Orlando FL and although my family has a second home there it is really stressful bc now that he will be there and I won't for the next year, I have to deal with everything by myself now and I'm super sad about him leaving this Sunday, I've never been away from him for more than a week :(
blondybride
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Boy my phone screwed that up it posted a million times lol
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I'm sorry your having this expierence and FH is leaving for florida. People suck. Forget everyone else! Just plan the wedding the way you want and ignore everyone else input.
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i'm sorry you're feeling that way. Sometimes I do too but I try not to let the drama get to me. We're all here and i'm always up for grabbing a coffee (although for me it would be tea) and talking.
blondybride
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Aww dress twin thanks that's so sweet of you!!! I live in NJ though lol and btw I also don't drink coffee ;)
PeaceLoveWedding
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Aww that's right! Well I have a good friend who lives in NJ, so maybe when I go visit her we can get together. I'm also always a FM away.
Sometimes i'll get a flavored coffee like vanilla but FH always makes fun of me because I never finish it.
Maybe with your FH gone, you know who will be a little nicer to you. Or at least she'll quit updating her Facebook status.
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FH and I have both had those moments of let's just go to Vegas and have Elvis marry us!
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This is the reason we did the whole surprise wedding reception. I have been in so many weddings and all I ever witnessed was drama...my mom was super guilty...I knew my body wouldnt be handle that kind of stress.
the simple fact of the matter is this day is all about you and your FH and THATS IT!!! Its supposed to be the celebration of your two lives becoming one for the rest of your lives!!!
It will be absolutely perfect and years from now you will look back and just remember how perfect it was when you married your best friend and all this stuff right now will seem unimportant.
Good luck and vent away to us! we are here and we COMPLETELY understand!!!
blondybride
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Thanks so much girls!!! I appreciate it!!!
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I'm really sorry you're going through this but I can definitely see how family and friends can make weddings things so much more difficult than it needs to be and people start drama over how they think things should be. try to breathe and think that the wedding is going to be awesome (plus it's at sand castle ) and then you get to enjoy the HM and married life.
hope you feel better!
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Posted by Supermans
I'm with ya lady!!! It's amazing how many people think your wedding should be all about them.
Amen to this!!!
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I'm with ya lady!!! It's amazing how many people think your wedding should be all about them.
ughhh ITA!!!
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I feel the same way!!!! I actually just told my fiance last night that I feel like canceling the whole thing. If one more person makes a face, or tells me what I should do, or shouldn't have done, or what I have to do or what I can't do I am going to flip out! I understand if someone doesn't love everything I pick, but there is absolutely no reason to outright tell me how much you hate it and then spend the next 15 mins bitching to me about it. They think I should only make decisions that are convenient for them. I want to tell everyone to shut up and go along with what I plan or please just don't be in the wedding! I'm to the point that I am no longer looking forward to it - I just want it to be over. We should have went to city hall!
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YUP. I feel like this a lot, and you are NOT alone. I have a friend getting married this summer and she told me she cries every day. Weddings can bring out the best AND the worst in people.
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My advice? Don't tell anyone ANYTHING. Just tell them what you're doing, but don't divulge any information. Only to FH.
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AWWW I'm soo sorry you are going threw all that dont let the stress get to you so much! i know thats easier said then done tho. but this is your day for you and your FH, dont worry about anyone else! and dont let them get you upset either. i agree i would just not tell people anymore details, i too had to start keeping things very hush hush cause reactions were starting to get me crazy. its helped
