Am I the only one.....

BigDsGirl Posted: Sep 06, 2011 04:16 PM

Am I the only one.....

that is extremely nervous and ANXIOUS about their wedding day??? I am petrified that something will go wrong, or that Ill be in a bad mood from being stressed, or that I wont enjoy it as much as I should. I read all of the brides reviews and all of the brides talk about how it was a fairytale and how it was the best day of their life and Im soooo scared it wont be that way for me..... Does anyone else feel this way???

leesah85 Posted: Sep 06, 2011 04:19 PM

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i can totally relate to that i just try not to think about the big picture and enjoy the moment!

Soon2bShea Posted: Sep 06, 2011 04:20 PM

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thats meeeeee

im worried that i wont be able to 'take it all in' and that it wont feel like our wedding...hard to explain, but im with ya

MrsTarricone2B Posted: Sep 06, 2011 04:24 PM

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I felt like this during the whole wedding process! I second guessed every detail and had crazy anxiety over everything! Now, with 4 days to go, I'm actually the calmest I've ever been.

IrishAli Posted: Sep 06, 2011 04:24 PM

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The funny thing was that even the things that went wrong didn't bother me that day!

It was like I was just kind of floating along....it all seemed a bit surreal, you know?

kshea23 Posted: Sep 06, 2011 04:35 PM

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Posted by IrishAli

The funny thing was that even the things that went wrong didn't bother me that day!

It was like I was just kind of floating along....it all seemed a bit surreal, you know?

exactly this!!

with everything that happened that day, it didn't matter- i was married to the love of my life, and that's all I needed.

Lana and Johan Posted: Sep 06, 2011 04:36 PM

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Posted by BigDsGirl

that is extremely nervous and ANXIOUS about their wedding day??? I am petrified that something will go wrong, or that Ill be in a bad mood from being stressed, or that I wont enjoy it as much as I should. I read all of the brides reviews and all of the brides talk about how it was a fairytale and how it was the best day of their life and Im soooo scared it wont be that way for me..... Does anyone else feel this way???

Believe me when I say, the stress goes away. I thought I was going to be crazy the day of and I was the most calmest I have ever been in my life. Everything will be perfect and if something does go wrong, you will be so far on cloud 9 that you wont even notice. Enjoy ur day. It does go by too fast.

DreamyD Posted: Sep 06, 2011 05:22 PM

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I'm not so much worried about the day of as I am about- getting EVERYTHING done in time. (and paid for)

The one thing I worry about for the day of is having enough people!

Chelechel1 Posted: Sep 06, 2011 05:37 PM

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Things won't be perfect, but you will be so happy the day of, that little things won't bother you! FOr example: When my SIL's flowers arrived, they were one bouquet short. She was like OK....... and then her MOH stepped right in and took over for her. My SIL just walked away because she saw someone else was handling the situation. Many people will handle situations for you especially, your BMs and your maitre d. Let these people know that you need the help!!!!! Don't try to resolve problems and mixups yourself!!!!! I was somewhat of a control freak before the wedding, but I was in La La Land on my day, and I was going to others for help, especially my maitre d. He resolved any issues for me within minutes! Just enjoy the day and let the small things roll off your shoulders!

Chelechel1 Posted: Sep 06, 2011 05:39 PM

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Posted by Lana and Johan

Posted by BigDsGirl

that is extremely nervous and ANXIOUS about their wedding day??? I am petrified that something will go wrong, or that Ill be in a bad mood from being stressed, or that I wont enjoy it as much as I should. I read all of the brides reviews and all of the brides talk about how it was a fairytale and how it was the best day of their life and Im soooo scared it wont be that way for me..... Does anyone else feel this way???

Believe me when I say, the stress goes away. I thought I was going to be crazy the day of and I was the most calmest I have ever been in my life. Everything will be perfect and if something does go wrong, you will be so far on cloud 9 that you wont even notice. Enjoy ur day. It does go by too fast.

ITA!!!!!