im sick of people asking me about the wedding. Im starting to hate it. like the novelty is wearing off lol
sat night was like a press confeence at my friends house. 20 ppl asking me about the wedding. i just flipped and im likeOKKKK ENOUGH!!!! i felt bad .. sometimes i come off like im not excited.. when the truth is.. im REALLLLY excited. but im TERRIFIED! and i dont like talking about it
AngnShaun
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no i feel the same way... and it started like 3 days after i got engaged... my sisters were all over me and i really didnt want to talk about it...
i did most of the wedding stuff without talking to anyone... except you guys
CarolAnn721
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Not at all!! I get the same way
MR1223
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i'm the same way. i really hate the question 'so how are the wedding plans coming along?' i just don't want to talk about it with all these people. there's not even that much to say. they don't want to hear about alllll the details anyway.
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why am i holding back tears????? is it cold feet?
fkkkkkkkkkkk help me
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why am i holding back tears????? is it cold feet?
fkkkkkkkkkkk help me
SSSSSS-TTTTTTTT-RRRRRRRR-EEEEEEE-SSSSSSS-SSSSSS
AwaitingAugust
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you're not weird (regarding this issue at least )
we all get nervous about becoming wives ... it's part of the process.
ps: i'm also pretty damned terrified
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awwwwwwww
relax mama. they are probably just excited for you figured you would want to share. im sure they will get over you snapping. i mean helloooooo its a few weeks before the big day. they have to understand that you might me stressed.
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I hate talkin about it too. But it's mostly bc I feel like people are bored to tears and all they hear is blah blah flowers blah dress blah blah church. you get the point. when people ask how things are going i usually give them a dead end 'good'.
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not weird at all! I felt the pressure this weekend. . . .
I kinda get annoyed when people ask me about the wedding - then the next statement is well you should have everything done by now!! I feel like saying ***???? do you know all that needs to be done all the little things take up soooo much time -
And I feel a huge pressure that everything invitations, menus, place cards, all have to be perfect since I am a designer........ I have had 4 people this weekend tell me that they cant wait to see my invitations they expect huge things
KatieG2010
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i feel the same exact way- and on sunday i am going to feellll sooooooooooooo gooood!!!!!!! relief!
JAAMS
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I don't think you're weird at all. I don't like constantly talking about, because sometimes there is nothing new to say.
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i hate talking to ppl about my wedding. i dont want anyone to know any details, i want those who are invited to be suprised. plus its boring- i figure they're just being polite and saying all the appropriate things but they dont reeally wanna hear me drone on.
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Oh Barb, don't stress! Just because you're holding back tears doesn't mean cold feet. You said you were excited, so the tears are stress are feeling anxious about everything going smoothly and successfully.
You're almost there. Try and relax and think about your honeymoon and getting to enjoy married life. It'll be ok!!!
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NanandEric08
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Nah, I do the same thing. I am really excited about the wedding but it's not the only thing I want to talk about 24/7 and I feel like lately thats the only thing people are interested in!
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went through same thing..it's normal...people **** the joy out of it b/c it becomes a task. H and I had the biggest fights ever week before wedding due to pressure. I had to let a lot of poop roll off my back. Although I miss planning and it was amazing, I am glad it is over.
Now I have the agony of picking 20 pics from 870 for my book with comments from EVERYBODY!
It's not cold feet towards H it's cold feet towards the wedding cuz it's stressful!
Cry - I did A LOT!
Future Mrs H
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Barb- you are not weird! And no you are not having cold feet. its called stress. Sometimes people think that all you want to talk about is the wedding and especially this close to your wedding sometimes you just need a break from it.
Dont hold in the tears! let them out- you may feel better
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I have yet to have that feeling, but that's only because I'm trying to zsavor these moments bc I know in the blink of an eye it will be over and I will never get to do it again.
I did however get the feeling of, ok this is starting to not be so much fun anymore and getting stressful. But at the same time trying to savor it.
I'm sorry if that sounded contradictory, its hard to explain..
Anyways, cheer up!!! And think of the first day of your honeymoon, stepping off of the plane, getting a drink in your hand, and your HUSBAND by your side!
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awww Barb. no its okay, with certain people i dont want to talk about the wedding, others who i know its true that they really care, i like to talk about it. but either way, dont worry, its less than 2 weeks before you get married and its stressfull more than anything else in your life. you remember my post a few weeks back, i was freakin out, i felt depressed like my life was all screwed up. that sounds crazy but its true. its a roller coaster of emotions right now and you will be good! xoxoxoxoxo love you! you can come over anytime or call me to talk
