am i wrong?
So... to make a long story short, my mom loves Mexico and anything having to do with it ( in particular Mariachi Bands) so she said that she would like, and pay for a Mariachi Band for cocktail hour. She also origianlly wanted dancers for cocktail and i veto'd that cuz imo you don't have dancers at cocktail and i wouldn't want them taking away from my dancing time at the reception, but i was fine having the Mariachi band during cocktail.
I'm not jumping up and down about it cuz it's my mom's thing and i'm fine having them but i'm also fine not having them.
So last night i mentioned to her that we heard someone had a doo wop group at cocktail and Fh and i thought that was an amazing idea and would look into that if she wasn't doing the Mariachi Band. I wasn't saying it as to change her mind... i was just talking to her. So she calls me in later saying something like. 'i dont think i'm going to do the Mariachi Band cuz neither of you really seem to care about it and i dont want to waste my $ on something that you guys don't care about.'
But she didn't say it in a way that was like 'i dont want you to have something you dont want' it was more like 'your not making a big enough deal about being excited for it and i don't want to be excited by myself so i'm going to spite you and not do it' I said fine to it cuz again, it didn't matter to me either way.
But realize, i've been the one calling and emailing different groups for prices.. not her.
I don't know how i can be excited and jumping up and down for something that i dont care about either way. I would only want them there because she wants them there, it's not really my thing but its ok cuz she's paying for it.
But am i wrong?
I'm not jumping up and down about it cuz it's my mom's thing and i'm fine having them but i'm also fine not having them.
So last night i mentioned to her that we heard someone had a doo wop group at cocktail and Fh and i thought that was an amazing idea and would look into that if she wasn't doing the Mariachi Band. I wasn't saying it as to change her mind... i was just talking to her. So she calls me in later saying something like. 'i dont think i'm going to do the Mariachi Band cuz neither of you really seem to care about it and i dont want to waste my $ on something that you guys don't care about.'
But she didn't say it in a way that was like 'i dont want you to have something you dont want' it was more like 'your not making a big enough deal about being excited for it and i don't want to be excited by myself so i'm going to spite you and not do it' I said fine to it cuz again, it didn't matter to me either way.
But realize, i've been the one calling and emailing different groups for prices.. not her.
I don't know how i can be excited and jumping up and down for something that i dont care about either way. I would only want them there because she wants them there, it's not really my thing but its ok cuz she's paying for it.
But am i wrong?
