am470's wedding

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Posted by Wendy'swedding

Nor did I, by posting my honest opinion, expect to get labeled a 'stalker' -- I am just curious about seeing the results of all the planning. No agenda.

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i didn't label you a stalker i said you seemed like one!

OK, correction, not labelled as a stalker but being labelled as 'seeming like a stalker.'

There are a lot of brides who don't post pictures. Andrea is not the first or only one. WHy is she being singled out?
It is not mandatory to post pictures on this website... chill out people!

thank you ...i appreciate the correction...

Andrea: I understand that you want to protect your (and your FH's privacy) by not posting pics, but I know there are a bunch of girls who are counting on you to share Oheka. Maybe you'll share for a few hours...

Best of luck with whatever planning you have left and enjoy married life. I am creeping up on the 3 month mark and marriage is truly a wonderful thing.

If Andrea chooses not to share that is her right period! If she wants to help the other Oheka brides then maybe any detail pictures she has (ones that do not contain faces like flowers and such) maybe she would post, but to pick on her is wrong and to put pressure on her is not right. Maybe without it she might have considered it.

I can name many people off the top of my head that NEVER posted a picture on this site and nobody ever questioned it. Whether it is because of theirs or their husbands job (being a teacher, a police officer or a psychiatrist) that is their right PERIOD!

We do not have the right to know everything though we feel entitled because we have listened to all the planning details.

Sorry JMO

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Posted by swags1016

If Andrea chooses not to share that is her right period! If she wants to help the other Oheka brides then maybe any detail pictures she has (ones that do not contain faces like flowers and such) maybe she would post, but to pick on her is wrong and to put pressure on her is not right. Maybe without it she might have considered it.

We do not have the right to know everything though we feel entitled because we have listened to all the planning details.

Sorry JMO

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I agree! Let her do what she damn well pleases.

awww and i was really looking forward to seeing your CC pics!!

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Posted by julz33

There are a lot of brides who don't post pictures. Andrea is not the first or only one. WHy is she being singled out?
It is not mandatory to post pictures on this website... chill out people!

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well said JULZ
i never post pictures either so YES she is not the only one-

actually she has posted pics...and if she chooses not to this time it is her choice and we don't need to be here questioning why she won't be! over and over

Well said, Am470, well said.

i think people just wanted to show you some support
jeez ya can't win

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Posted by oct.2004bride

i think people just wanted to show you some support
jeez ya can't win

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I am sorry if that is the case. I barely read the new posts. I am all for support...just no more discussion. I don't want any more feuds to start over this.