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An email from my shower crashers...*UPDATE*

Original post by soon2bmrsVPT

Read on & enjoy...


I have been bawling and fighting on the phone for over 1 hour now.. Please tell me this is tacky coming from two 40+ year old women..

FYI: this is after sending an email asking for my cheerleaders home addresses so I could send a thank you. You know, since the card said 'To Coach Heather.. Love, Your cheerleaders .... and G & D'


here it is...

Heather,


There is no need to send a thank you to your team, it was only from Denise and I. We put your 10 year old team, just to be nice so you thought it was also from them. We only had heard about it 2 days before the shower, so no one chipped in for the gift but us. We were told to stop by your shower, we were in the store for 1 ½ trying to pick out a nice gift for our coach. We wanted to get you something that you could really use, we did not have any idea where you were registered. The reason we gave you this gift was because you are the 1st of our coaches getting married and you have been in our league from the start. We thought we were doing a good thing stopping at the shower and giving you a beautiful gift, spending a lot more than we would normally spend. Unfortunately you did not even announce from Grace and Denise you only mentioned your cheerleaders, now I am being told that you did not even like the vacuum, it wasn’t the right one, that is fine why do you think we attached the gift receipt. It wasn’t the right one, well excuse me like we said we had no idea where you were registered. The vacuum was not cheap and it was only from two people. You do not have to worry, we will not be crashing your wedding, I do not plan on giving a gift to a girl that is extremely ungreatful, we really thought that we had a better repore with you. My apologies for giving such a crappy gift. Enjoy your wedding, someday you will realize that what we did was a nice thing.



PS: Kohl’s is a nice store to shop in, sorry it didn’t suit your needs.



Take Care and Good Luck in your Marriage,



Grace & Denise



UPDATE:

The email I rec'd today!



Heather,



Dona sent the email to my email at home, I tried 3X’s to send you a response but to no avail it was not working for some reason, I could not send at email’s out. I was asking you if you would like the girls email addresses or would you like their full address at home. I have all the email addresses at my fingertips right now. The addresses I would just have to pick up from Denise, she has my book or bible I should say.



Let me know which one’s you would need.



Also, I was not finished talking with you that night. My husband was pissed because I cooked him dinner and I did not call him up for dinner and his food was cold. He was like you are b.s. and you forgot about me. I am sorry for abruptly getting off the phone. Again I apologize for the email, I should have spoken to you first. And if your mother-in-law did in fact pay for me, please advise, I have no problem paying for myself. It wouldn’t be right if she had too, I see all your points, but I hope you could see mine. I was very upset when I heard all this stuff and I didn’t think to speak with you first. When I make a mistake, I am the 1st to admit it, if I am right about something I will argue tooth and nail. But in this case I made a mistake and I am truly sorry. I hope that we could put this behind us and continue to work together. I really do like you very much that is why I had no problem wanting to get you a gift for your shower. What a mess. I apologize, and please tell Vinny I am sorry too, I am embarrassed that he has to know about my mistake.



Please call whenever you want to finish talking.



Takecare,



Grace
faithandkevin Posted:

Re: An email from my shower crashers...

What a psycho.
It's not even worth crying about!
portjeffbride Posted:

Re: An email from my shower crashers...

'now I am being told that you did not even like the vacuum, it wasn’t the right one'

and where did they get that from?

I like how they show up, are critical of how you received the gift, are hostile about paying for it (even though it was their idea), and couldn't keep who paid what to themselves.

real charmers! Don't weddings bring out the best in people?
Mooshyboo Posted:

Re: An email from my shower crashers...

I am speechless....
snydl40 Posted:

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It sounds like to 15 year old girls wrote this-childish and uncalled for.
AlliCatB Posted:

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they said rapore instead of rapport

too funny. how old are these girls? why haven't they learned about the art of invitations & tact?
HelenZ Posted:

Re: An email from my shower crashers...


Posted by MJDoc12

FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU
UUUUUUUUUUCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK THEM!!!!!!!!!!!



they came to the shower that they were CLEARLY not invited to...and then you're suppposed to lick their assses cause they got you a gift and you didn't announce to the entire party that it came from them????? how fuking tacky that is.

they are stupid cuntrags who should rot. you know how i feel about making sure you had a great shower my friend, and them being them did not help you....so i am sending them incurable veneral disease vibes right now.

you don't owe them shiiit but a swift kick in the azz



BlushingBride714 Posted:

Re: An email from my shower crashers...


Posted by soon2bmrsVPT


There is no need to send a thank you to your team, it was only from Denise and I. We put your 10 year old team, just to be nice so you thought it was also from them.





That is my FAVORITE part...... If they wanted to nice and have you think that it was from the entire team, then why did they feel it necessary to inform you the next day that only they paid for it?!?! And why were they so upset when you announced that it was from your team when clearly that is what they wanted you to think?!?! Sounds like these women need some therapy!
angNbrian07 Posted:

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IMO it looks like that letter was written by two high school girls!!

PegaLega Posted:

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speechless!
Is she kidding? She thinks it was ungrateful not to announce their names...if that was the case they shouldnt have put that it was from the girls in the first place=aaaaazzzzzzzz!
And then to email you and be rude and cocky about it, I would respons and say Oh im sorry that you thought 'I' was being ungrateful but there is a point to 'INVITING' people to a party, thats to have the people there that you choose to have there. You must have thought that knowing about the shower meant you could come. In case you were unsure since your wedding days have come and GONE its not proper etiquette to show up to a celebration uninvited.
Elise&Matt Posted:

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OMG how rude!!! I would use the vacuum on them and suck up their hair till it gave them the hagged look that they deserve for even thinking of writing you that email!
woobie113007 Posted:

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OMG I thought that the people that wrote this were the 10 year olds!!!!!
Thats so ridiculous.....Are they kidding!?!?!?!?
What losers.....Dont even let it get to you........
Some for you!!!
FutureMrsGK Posted:

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I truly hate people that act like that! WHAT CHILDREN!

soon2bmrsVPT Posted:

Re: An email from my shower crashers...*UPDATE*

bump for update!!!!!!!!!!!!!

AeroJenn Posted:

Re: An email from my shower crashers...*UPDATE*

Well...at least she apologized...that seems to be the first mature thing she's done lately. Are you going to invite her to your wedding after all this?

MJDoc12 Posted:

Re: An email from my shower crashers...*UPDATE*


Posted by soon2bmrsVPT
UPDATE:

The email I rec'd today!



Heather,



Dona sent the email to my email at home, I tried 3X’s to send you a response but to no avail it was not working for some reason, I could not send at email’s out. I was asking you if you would like the girls email addresses or would you like their full address at home. I have all the email addresses at my fingertips right now. The addresses I would just have to pick up from Denise, she has my book or bible I should say.



Let me know which one’s you would need.



Also, I was not finished talking with you that night. My husband was pissed because I cooked him dinner and I did not call him up for dinner and his food was cold. He was like you are b.s. and you forgot about me. I am sorry for abruptly getting off the phone. Again I apologize for the email, I should have spoken to you first. And if your mother-in-law did in fact pay for me, please advise, I have no problem paying for myself. It wouldn’t be right if she had too, I see all your points, but I hope you could see mine. I was very upset when I heard all this stuff and I didn’t think to speak with you first. When I make a mistake, I am the 1st to admit it, if I am right about something I will argue tooth and nail. But in this case I made a mistake and I am truly sorry. I hope that we could put this behind us and continue to work together. I really do like you very much that is why I had no problem wanting to get you a gift for your shower. What a mess. I apologize, and please tell Vinny I am sorry too, I am embarrassed that he has to know about my mistake.



Please call whenever you want to finish talking.



Takecare,

Grace



wow, nothing like a snide backhanded apology. seriously i hope this biitch's vajajay rots and falls off
soon2bmrsVPT Posted:

Re: An email from my shower crashers...*UPDATE*


Posted by AeroJenn

Well...at least she apologized...that seems to be the first mature thing she's done lately. Are you going to invite her to your wedding after all this?



those two witches weren't invited from the get go.. they've just been telling me they're going to CRASH my wedding.. um, HI- you two 'ladies' are 45!!
MF9282 Posted:

Re: An email from my shower crashers...*UPDATE*

Who pee'd in her cheerios ??? Geez what goes through people's heads!!!

Sorry they were so rude to you, that was such a nasty email and uncalled for at that!!!
soon2bmrsVPT Posted:

Re: An email from my shower crashers...*UPDATE*


Posted by MJDoc12


Posted by soon2bmrsVPT
UPDATE:

The email I rec'd today!



Heather,



Dona sent the email to my email at home, I tried 3X’s to send you a response but to no avail it was not working for some reason, I could not send at email’s out. I was asking you if you would like the girls email addresses or would you like their full address at home. I have all the email addresses at my fingertips right now. The addresses I would just have to pick up from Denise, she has my book or bible I should say.



Let me know which one’s you would need.



Also, I was not finished talking with you that night. My husband was pissed because I cooked him dinner and I did not call him up for dinner and his food was cold. He was like you are b.s. and you forgot about me. I am sorry for abruptly getting off the phone. Again I apologize for the email, I should have spoken to you first. And if your mother-in-law did in fact pay for me, please advise, I have no problem paying for myself. It wouldn’t be right if she had too, I see all your points, but I hope you could see mine. I was very upset when I heard all this stuff and I didn’t think to speak with you first. When I make a mistake, I am the 1st to admit it, if I am right about something I will argue tooth and nail. But in this case I made a mistake and I am truly sorry. I hope that we could put this behind us and continue to work together. I really do like you very much that is why I had no problem wanting to get you a gift for your shower. What a mess. I apologize, and please tell Vinny I am sorry too, I am embarrassed that he has to know about my mistake.



Please call whenever you want to finish talking.



Takecare,

Grace



wow, nothing like a snide backhanded apology. seriously i hope this biitch's vajajay rots and falls off



it's official.. vin's leaving me for you!
diva7531 Posted:

Re: An email from my shower crashers...*UPDATE*


Posted by MJDoc12

FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU
UUUUUUUUUUCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK THEM!!!!!!!!!!!



they came to the shower that they were CLEARLY not invited to...and then you're suppposed to lick their assses cause they got you a gift and you didn't announce to the entire party that it came from them????? how fuking tacky that is.

they are stupid cuntrags who should rot. you know how i feel about making sure you had a great shower my friend, and them being them did not help you....so i am sending them incurable veneral disease vibes right now.

you don't owe them shiiit but a swift kick in the azz




My sentiments exactly!!!!!! Oh yeah and the spelling had me laughing almost as hard!
Marchbride07 Posted:

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I am glad that b itch apologized!!!!!!!!

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