an honest request
can we all go back to these boards being fun?
Im not specifying ANYONE but yes at times a post can hit a nerve and yes some people word things differently, but really.... we are strangers! why let the opinion of a stranger really affect you?
the people that are real FRIENDS on here, met and like each other for how they are off the boards. those that are just screen name friends thats fine too
this is supposed to help us through the most stressful and yet happiest time of our lives. the drama adds crap into the picture that is unnecessary.
you dont have to like everyone on here, i think thats impossible, but civility goes a LONG way. How you conduct yourself when there is no real repercussions is a loud statement about one as a person.
2010 is RIGHT around the corner.... can we please go back to having fun and realize that opinions are USEFUL and sometimes its okay to be disagreed with.
Maybe im rambling, but i just hate when people get their feelings hurt, and really when people take this so seriously. The thoughts that should matter are yours, and those important to you. If a poster does not hold a valuable place in your life, let it go. Its not worth it.
I think we all need a vacation
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Im not specifying ANYONE but yes at times a post can hit a nerve and yes some people word things differently, but really.... we are strangers! why let the opinion of a stranger really affect you?
the people that are real FRIENDS on here, met and like each other for how they are off the boards. those that are just screen name friends thats fine too
this is supposed to help us through the most stressful and yet happiest time of our lives. the drama adds crap into the picture that is unnecessary.
you dont have to like everyone on here, i think thats impossible, but civility goes a LONG way. How you conduct yourself when there is no real repercussions is a loud statement about one as a person.
2010 is RIGHT around the corner.... can we please go back to having fun and realize that opinions are USEFUL and sometimes its okay to be disagreed with.
Maybe im rambling, but i just hate when people get their feelings hurt, and really when people take this so seriously. The thoughts that should matter are yours, and those important to you. If a poster does not hold a valuable place in your life, let it go. Its not worth it.
I think we all need a vacation
