girls in the BP that is. After hashing out this dilemma FH decided he wants to ask FSIL to be in the BP. I left the decision up to him. We asked the FIL's opinion and they said they know FSIL would be ecstatic to be in the BP and FFIL said he would do whatever it takes, including spending however much money he needs to, to make sure someone is there to watch the kids. I just told FH that if those kids do something to cause a scene or ruin my wedding I am not responsible for the words that will most certainly come flying out of my mouth.
Cacarina
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Can't they get someone to watch the kids and NOT bring them to the wedding? They are so young anyway, why do they need to be at your wedding?? Good luck, I hope it all works out!!!
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Can't they get someone to watch the kids and NOT bring them to the wedding? They are so young anyway, why do they need to be at your wedding?? Good luck, I hope it all works out!!!
I think that the kids don't need to be at the wedding, except FH's niece who will be the flower girl. It isn't like they are going to remember not being there. And surprisingly FMIL agree with me.She was even like 'this is an adult affair that the kids don't need to be at'. It is FH, FFIL and FSIL that want all the kids there.
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Can't they get someone to watch the kids and NOT bring them to the wedding? They are so young anyway, why do they need to be at your wedding?? Good luck, I hope it all works out!!!
I think that the kids don't need to be at the wedding, except FH's niece who will be the flower girl. It isn't like they are going to remember not being there. And surprisingly FMIL agree with me.She was even like 'this is an adult affair that the kids don't need to be at'. It is FH, FFIL and FSIL that want all the kids there.
I am surprised. My sister has a 3 year old, he is going to be my ring bearer, but as soon as the ceremony is over, she can't wait to have someone come and pick him up so she can relax and have a good time. Why would your FSIL want to worry about her kids, when she can be having a good time not worrying? Maybe you should mention this to her. Less stress on EVERYONE!!!!!!!
