annoyed vent.....

Original post by angl2001

Feb 25, 2008 07:23 PM

An old friend seems mad at me cause i didnt invite her to my wedding.... a little baclkground......

I have known this girl since kindergarten...i moved from queens to LI when i was 15 1/2 we really didnt hang out much since we were 12 or 13 we got back in touch thru myspace about 5 years ago and i have only seen her 1 time since then. So i had an away message up on AIM saying 175 invited blah blah blah...and she sent me a mesage with a sad face saying 'im not invited?' i told her alot of people couldnt be invited but we have a B-list if enough family members say no....her response was 'whatever...enjoy your time' *** IS THAT?? i told her we had to invite family first and weddings are very VERY expensive especailly paying for it ourselves when she gets married she will maybe understand better....

I AM SO ANNOYED AT THIS!!! I didnt ralized people were really expecting to be invited that arent family or close friends...i asked her if she was mad and she didnt respond....shes got some nerve!!!!!!!!!!

Thanks for reading sorry for the vent!

FtrMrsV Posted: Feb 25, 2008 09:35 PM

Re: annoyed vent.....

Don't be upset. You haven't seen in such a long time. You have no reason to explain to her your reason for not inviting her. If she was a real friend she would understand your reason and just be happy for you.

angl2001 Posted: Feb 25, 2008 09:37 PM

Re: annoyed vent.....

thanks ladies

lovebear7800 Posted: Feb 26, 2008 01:40 AM

Re: annoyed vent.....

sorry.

bluegreen08 Posted: Feb 26, 2008 01:42 AM

Re: annoyed vent.....

that *****

MayWeddingGrl Posted: Feb 26, 2008 09:33 AM

Re: annoyed vent.....

My mom just told me that her friend who was invited, called to RSVP and also to ask if her son could attend my wedding. *** right?? I recently met him, but its not like we're good friends. I think its because he's single and is the same age as me, so the parents are hoping he might meet a nice girl at my wedding. I'm not going to pay to be someone's match maker. Its been a couple of days, but I am still annoyed by the situtation. So I totally know how you feel about people wanting to come and being put on the spot for an invitation.

I tried to put a different spin on the whole thing, by trying to think that sometimes people are so excited about the idea of a wedding that they don't realize that it can be expensive. They want to share in your day and get disappointed when they aren't invited. Either way though, it's rude of her to ask you if she was invited.