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Another bad turn...

MLAngelo Posted:

Another bad turn...

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You know my FFIL has been sick a while. If you remember I said I thought FH and I would have an 08 wedding but in Sept of 07 FFIL got headaches that turned out to be lung cancer and worse.. the rare and scary Limbic encephalitis.

For those who don't know what it is...
The pathogens responsible for encephalitis attack primarily the limbic system (a collection of structures at the base of the brain responsible for emotions and many other basic functions), often causing memory deficits similar to those observed in Alzheimer's disease or Creutzfeldt-Jakob disease (although limbic encephalitis does not cause the same cognitive deficits as these diseases. 60% of the time, limbic encephalitis is paraneoplastic in origin, meaning it is a particularly severe form of limbic encephalitis caused by neoplasms most commonly associated with small cell lung carcinoma. Whereas the majority of encephalitides are viral in nature, PLE is often associated with cancer. In fact, it is thought that up to 1 in 100 people with cancer have paraneoplastic limbic encephalitis which is commonly misdiagnosed as neurological diseases such as Alzheimer's.


Anyhow FFIL went from perfectly normal to looking and sounding like an 85 year old with Alzheimers in a matter of days (he was only 59 at the time). They have tried experimental treatments in the past and they have helped. But he recently had another transfusion (to fight his white blood cells that are still attacking his brain). Last time he did that he was better for a while. This time he was better for a day. This week he wandered out of the brain trauma center after signing himself in. He also woke up in the middle of the night and started turning lights on, throwing a fit and insisting he was at a hotel, not his home.

FMIL hasn't even gotten a dress yet because she hasn't had time, she can't leave him alone and when she can get someone to watch him she does her important errands like groceries. We have no idea if FFIL will be able to make it to the wedding, how he will be able to stay in a hotel overnight and what he will be like if he is there.

Poor FH! This is so hard on him.
MrsDrinkh20 Posted:

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Oh my goodness...I am so sorry to hear of all of this...you and your FH and his family are in my prayers...I hope things take a more positive turn son!

evewedsjc Posted:

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i am so sorry to hear this...your poor FH...
MrsCastanedain09 Posted:

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I'm so sorry to hear this. My prayers for FH and his family.
julesrbf Posted:

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I'm sorry, this must be so difficult for you and FH.
littlepixie12 Posted:

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OMG.. So sad.. I am so sorry
PROBM Posted:

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I am so sorry lots of prayers coming your way
springsandra Posted:

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I am so sorry to hear that he is going through this and knowing how difficult it must be for your FH and his family, and you!

Sending prayers and positive thoughts your way!
meg922 Posted:

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jmbc2377 Posted:

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So sorry to hear this.
DomesticDeeva Posted:

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Wow that most be so hard o you both..I'm sorry Sending lots of your way.
LadyDuda81509 Posted:

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oh no that is very sad! im sure you FH really wants his father to be there! Im sure everything will work out and if he cant make it to the wedding im sure you will be able to find someone to watch him and make sure he will be fine for the night!

he will be with you guys no matter if he is physically there or not!

will pray for him!!
las1 Posted:

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I am sorry I know its hard my Grandfather had Alzhemeirs
geegee827 Posted:

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I am so sorry you're going through this.
Future Mrs Roo Posted:

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Im so sorry to hear this. I'll be praying for you guys
gina409 Posted:

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im so sorry to hear this..my thoughts and prsayers are with you
coldasice217 Posted:

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I'm so sorry
AugustBridein09 Posted:

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Aww I'm so sorry

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