*****ANOTHER REPLY CARD QUESTION*****

I am now down to the reply cards.

Question:

Do I need to fill in the name on the space for name? Or are guests doing it themselves when they reply.


My invite are

The favor of a reply is requested
on or before July 15, 2006

M__________________________

Number of guests_____________


TIA

guests (well most of them anyway) are to fill in their names.

some people discreetly number their response cards to coordinate with a master list so that in case someone forgets to write it in, then you can refer to the number and match it up.

I bought a black light pen from Ebay for $4 and did it that way. But you could just do it lightly with a pencil in the same spot of each one.

laurie, didn't you write in ____ of 4 ? i loved that...i thought about it...but FMIL wouldn't let me. i wish you could write their names in along with a note about sending it in..

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Posted by CLMon7906



laurie, didn't you write in ____ of 4 ? i loved that...i thought about it...but FMIL wouldn't let me. i wish you could write their names in along with a note about sending it in..

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darn right I did.

Between fi saying '_______ people don't respond' (I will leave it blank to protect the innocent) and the whole idea that 'they may or may not bring their kids, grandmas, etc'. We wanted some piece of mind. We both wanted a small intimate wedding.

I may want to incorporate the # of seat reserved.

That's a great idea to let them know they cannot bring the whole family with them.

Or will they understand if I address the invites to?

John and Mary Smith
or
John Smith and guest

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Posted by sr081906

Or will they understand if I address the invites to?

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one can only hope...

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Posted by itslaurie.

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Posted by CLMon7906



laurie, didn't you write in ____ of 4 ? i loved that...i thought about it...but FMIL wouldn't let me. i wish you could write their names in along with a note about sending it in..

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darn right I did.

Between fi saying '_______ people don't respond' (I will leave it blank to protect the innocent) and the whole idea that 'they may or may not bring their kids, grandmas, etc'. We wanted some piece of mind. We both wanted a small intimate wedding.

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I love that idea!!!

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Posted by itslaurie.

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Posted by sr081906

Or will they understand if I address the invites to?

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one can only hope...

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but they don't...laurie had it made...my FH and FMIL wouldn't allow it. grr.

Most people know who is invited.

I am mostly concerned with one person who I work with and has kids.

BTW:.... you invite are so unique and gorgeous! Great job!

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Posted by CLMon7906

but they don't...laurie had it made...my FH and FMIL wouldn't allow it. grr.

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although my little sneaky (stolen) idea doesn't guarantee me anything!

and I still have many responses out but so far, so good.

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Posted by sr081906
BTW:.... you invite are so unique and gorgeous! Great job!

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thanks. we put a lot of thought in to them.

Sophie, I think you need to add a line for accepts or regrets.

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Posted by Smiles111

Sophie, I think you need to add a line for accepts or regrets.

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I wanted to but FH prefers

Number of guests_____________

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Posted by sr081906

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Posted by Smiles111

Sophie, I think you need to add a line for accepts or regrets.

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I wanted to but FH prefers

Number of guests_____________

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I did both, just because I didn't want to see a biz ZERO written in if tehy weren't coming! haha!

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Posted by itslaurie.

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Posted by CLMon7906



laurie, didn't you write in ____ of 4 ? i loved that...i thought about it...but FMIL wouldn't let me. i wish you could write their names in along with a note about sending it in..

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darn right I did.

Between fi saying '_______ people don't respond' (I will leave it blank to protect the innocent) and the whole idea that 'they may or may not bring their kids, grandmas, etc'. We wanted some piece of mind. We both wanted a small intimate wedding.

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Did you hand write the number invited or did you type it?

Both on the number or reserved seats
And
___ of ____

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Posted by sr081906

Did you hand write the number invited or did you type it?

Both on the number or reserved seats
And
___ of ____

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I hand wrote it in with a brown pen.

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Posted by itslaurie.

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Posted by sr081906

Did you hand write the number invited or did you type it?

Both on the number or reserved seats
And
___ of ____

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I hand wrote it in with a brown pen.

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it's the fact that you are so candid about it that i love more than anything....