not sure lol well they have the hall booked and they arent asking the wedding party till next year so i think i am safe for a while. i dont care if she looks for herself.....jst dont drop me to do it!
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'Thoughts On the Psyche of a Younger Sister...
So I have been thinking about how your sister acted in regards to the whole dress situation and it reminds me totally of how I acted when Mira was getting married. If she’s anything like me, she probably wants to stand out more than others at your wedding. If you remember I got super pissed when my mom got super fancy saris for all my cousins and not me from India. I guess my whole thought process was that obviously Mira was the bride so everyone would be looking at her, but if there was someone else they should have been looking at it should have been me, the bride’s sister! (I know, retarded but whatever.) Even when we were getting henna done, I didn’t let the lady do any of my cousins’ henna as elaborate as mine. I guess what I didn’t realize and what your sister won’t realize until after the wedding is that no one cares about anyone but the bride (and maybe the groom lol).'
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not sure lol well they have the hall booked and they arent asking the wedding party till next year so i think i am safe for a while. i dont care if she looks for herself.....jst dont drop me to do it!
Right - let's pretend you matter too!!
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'Thoughts On the Psyche of a Younger Sister...
So I have been thinking about how your sister acted in regards to the whole dress situation and it reminds me totally of how I acted when Mira was getting married. If she’s anything like me, she probably wants to stand out more than others at your wedding. If you remember I got super pissed when my mom got super fancy saris for all my cousins and not me from India. I guess my whole thought process was that obviously Mira was the bride so everyone would be looking at her, but if there was someone else they should have been looking at it should have been me, the bride’s sister! (I know, retarded but whatever.) Even when we were getting henna done, I didn’t let the lady do any of my cousins’ henna as elaborate as mine. I guess what I didn’t realize and what your sister won’t realize until after the wedding is that no one cares about anyone but the bride (and maybe the groom lol).'
Interesting... I guess I can be glad i don't have a younger sister - i only have a younger brother...and he's married to the uber busy one...
But - as busy as she is/was/will be - she still managed to leave for their vacation on time!!!!
Sorry - still irked about that...the measuring thing makes me crazy - because let's face it - she probably didn't measure herself properly & the dress won't fit. She couldn't take FIVE friggin' minutes to go somewhere in the city and get measured???
Can you tell i'm bothered??!?!?!?!?
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Posted by Jess125483
Here's the Email:
'Thoughts On the Psyche of a Younger Sister...
So I have been thinking about how your sister acted in regards to the whole dress situation and it reminds me totally of how I acted when Mira was getting married. If she’s anything like me, she probably wants to stand out more than others at your wedding. If you remember I got super pissed when my mom got super fancy saris for all my cousins and not me from India. I guess my whole thought process was that obviously Mira was the bride so everyone would be looking at her, but if there was someone else they should have been looking at it should have been me, the bride’s sister! (I know, retarded but whatever.) Even when we were getting henna done, I didn’t let the lady do any of my cousins’ henna as elaborate as mine. I guess what I didn’t realize and what your sister won’t realize until after the wedding is that no one cares about anyone but the bride (and maybe the groom lol).'
Interesting... I guess I can be glad i don't have a younger sister - i only have a younger brother...and he's married to the uber busy one...
But - as busy as she is/was/will be - she still managed to leave for their vacation on time!!!!
Sorry - still irked about that...the measuring thing makes me crazy - because let's face it - she probably didn't measure herself properly & the dress won't fit. She couldn't take FIVE friggin' minutes to go somewhere in the city and get measured???
Can you tell i'm bothered??!?!?!?!?
Is this one the lawyer?
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sisters can suck....so ive heard i have 2 brothers lol
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Here's the Email:
'Thoughts On the Psyche of a Younger Sister...
So I have been thinking about how your sister acted in regards to the whole dress situation and it reminds me totally of how I acted when Mira was getting married. If she’s anything like me, she probably wants to stand out more than others at your wedding. If you remember I got super pissed when my mom got super fancy saris for all my cousins and not me from India. I guess my whole thought process was that obviously Mira was the bride so everyone would be looking at her, but if there was someone else they should have been looking at it should have been me, the bride’s sister! (I know, retarded but whatever.) Even when we were getting henna done, I didn’t let the lady do any of my cousins’ henna as elaborate as mine. I guess what I didn’t realize and what your sister won’t realize until after the wedding is that no one cares about anyone but the bride (and maybe the groom lol).'
Interesting... I guess I can be glad i don't have a younger sister - i only have a younger brother...and he's married to the uber busy one...
But - as busy as she is/was/will be - she still managed to leave for their vacation on time!!!!
Sorry - still irked about that...the measuring thing makes me crazy - because let's face it - she probably didn't measure herself properly & the dress won't fit. She couldn't take FIVE friggin' minutes to go somewhere in the city and get measured???
Can you tell i'm bothered??!?!?!?!?
Is this one the lawyer?
Yes- and i do understand, I do...the busy thing...she's insane busy.. But she's in the heart of the city - it took the rest of the girls literally 2 minutes to get measured. She's 3 blocks from macy's and 1 block from numerous stores she could've been measured at... That's what's upsetting the most - that she didn't feel it was important enough to take the few minutes it required. I sincerely have asked NOTHING else of anyone... Do your hair as you want, wear whatever shoes you want, i haven't made them go looking for dresses like crazy - well all went to one store ONCE...
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sisters can suck....so ive heard i have 2 brothers lol
LOL, I have 1 sister and 2 brothers - the brothers are definitely easier for me, although I think my parents' had the toughest time raising the brother that is just slightly younger than me.
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yeah brother can suck too lol
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Posted by Jess125483
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Posted by Jess125483
Here's the Email:
'Thoughts On the Psyche of a Younger Sister...
So I have been thinking about how your sister acted in regards to the whole dress situation and it reminds me totally of how I acted when Mira was getting married. If she’s anything like me, she probably wants to stand out more than others at your wedding. If you remember I got super pissed when my mom got super fancy saris for all my cousins and not me from India. I guess my whole thought process was that obviously Mira was the bride so everyone would be looking at her, but if there was someone else they should have been looking at it should have been me, the bride’s sister! (I know, retarded but whatever.) Even when we were getting henna done, I didn’t let the lady do any of my cousins’ henna as elaborate as mine. I guess what I didn’t realize and what your sister won’t realize until after the wedding is that no one cares about anyone but the bride (and maybe the groom lol).'
Interesting... I guess I can be glad i don't have a younger sister - i only have a younger brother...and he's married to the uber busy one...
But - as busy as she is/was/will be - she still managed to leave for their vacation on time!!!!
Sorry - still irked about that...the measuring thing makes me crazy - because let's face it - she probably didn't measure herself properly & the dress won't fit. She couldn't take FIVE friggin' minutes to go somewhere in the city and get measured???
Can you tell i'm bothered??!?!?!?!?
Is this one the lawyer?
Yes- and i do understand, I do...the busy thing...she's insane busy.. But she's in the heart of the city - it took the rest of the girls literally 2 minutes to get measured. She's 3 blocks from macy's and 1 block from numerous stores she could've been measured at... That's what's upsetting the most - that she didn't feel it was important enough to take the few minutes it required. I sincerely have asked NOTHING else of anyone... Do your hair as you want, wear whatever shoes you want, i haven't made them go looking for dresses like crazy - well all went to one store ONCE...
No I totally understand your point. I've worked in law firms literally my entire life (Dad is a lawyer, so he had me in there as early as possible, then I worked in a Manhattan firm throughout my undergrad, then clerked for a judge, now at another firm on LI). It's a lifestyle choice thing...you CAN be a lawyer without working 8am to midnight, it's just about the place you work...but no matter how insane her schedule, it's a matter of making 20 minutes at lunch one single day. It CAN be done - it just can.
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damn its 1230 already?!?!?!?
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For your sake, I hope that she measured herself right or too big - that way there are no problems with the dress. The only thing that could be really bad is if she measured herself way too small.
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damn its 1230 already?!?!?!?
YESSS, go rest, you have PT tomorrow!!!
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i will in a few i am trying to find a myspace music player with my wedding song for my age and its hard cause its not a popular song at all
angl2001
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ill hang for like 15 20 more min
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i will in a few i am trying to find a myspace music player with my wedding song for my age and its hard cause its not a popular song at all
Are you able to upload it yourself? I don't know how the myspace player works
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I'm fading - 1,000 might have to wait until tomorrow!!!