So last night I had another wedding nightmare! Ahhh. Is anyone else having them!? lol This one was about my DJ! He was so horrible and the music he played was really low nobody could hear it and he made us roller blade around the dance floor to horrible music! hahaha I have no idea where these dreams come from!
2014-er crashing because I just had a nightmare about my DJ last night too!!! In my dream the DJ played Boyz II Men's 'I'll Make Love to You' as our first dance song and I was like OMG W.T.F? I didn't pick this song, I hate this song!! And then there were long periods of time that there was no music and no one could find the DJ, I was so angry in my dream! Omg, it was terrible!! I feel you. I think as it's getting closer, they're getting worse! hahaha.
Posted by xBudgetBridex
Aw I'm sorry sweetie!! I.don't want to jinx myself, but I have only had that one good dream about my late grandma and my wedding gown! No nightmares yet!
However......I have had a bad case of 'cold feet' lately!!! Not with marrying fh!!! I second guess everything I do, im the type of person that can't make up my mind right away, I ask FH his opinion all the time 100x and then ask him if he's sure and is it really the right choice...so ps choosing my dress with out asking his opinion is hard!!!! But I have started to question everything we have so far!! For no good reason! Not like I have suddenly heart a bad review.....the 'what ifs' scary me. And I think that's what is making me react like this.....
Posted by DebOst
The only nightmares I am having are caused by our families. We come from very different backgrounds and by different I am referring to religions and job status. His family is very working class blue collar whereas my extended family (grandparents, aunts, uncles, etc.. ) are very white collar. His family thinks we are spending too much money and are insulted with our registry, my parents and family feel we didn't register for enough... I am just scared to insult anyone and I have dreams about eloping because the stress is just too much some days... another 337 days until they start in on us about how we will raise our children.
I am sorry you are having these dreams. The more we plan, the more we book, the more all of the wedding 'stuff' is on our minds. Everything will be perfect because it is the day you will be marrying the love of your life. Don't worry about all of the little things. I was given some great advice by a friend to plan and book what we want, look at the reviews of the vendors, meet with them, go over everything with them a few times before the day of, and then day of sit back and enjoy. Things might go wrong, but if you stress over it you will ruin your day and that will be the only thing your remember about your day. My cousin's wedding her flowers were horrible, but it is what it is and it was too late to change it. Move on and focus on what the day really is about. To me it is about Love, FH and Me, our Families, and having a big ol party. Your friends and families will make your day perfect because they are there to celebrate the two of you.
Sorry I think I rambled on too much, I hope it all makes sense.
Posted by Alimm729
I think as it's getting closer, they're getting worse! hahaha.
Posted by Alimm729
2014-er crashing because I just had a nightmare about my DJ last night too!!! In my dream the DJ played Boyz II Men's 'I'll Make Love to You' as our first dance song and I was like OMG W.T.F? I didn't pick this song, I hate this song!! And then there were long periods of time that there was no music and no one could find the DJ, I was so angry in my dream! Omg, it was terrible!! I feel you. I think as it's getting closer, they're getting worse! hahaha.
I'm crashing! I've been having crazy wedding dreams too!! From my dress not fitting to guest lists and invites and dj too!. This wedding planning process has put a lot of stress on my relationship with FH because his family is making things complicated and I'm hoping once we get those little things resolved that the dreams will stop, but everyone tells me they won't!
I have had a few wedding 'nightmares' already... one of them was the morning of and I went to put my dress on and there was a huge coffee stain going down the front of the dress!and I still put the dress on! I had another one where it was time for the ceremony to start and I didn't have my dress on, makeup done, and no one was around lol. I think its totally normal :)
