I had a friend that I invited to my shower... she RSVPed yes, and didn't show. No follow up phone call to apologize or explain....
If she never explains herself can I un-invite her to the wedding? I'm really aggravated that she didn't explain herself and just didn't show like that, that's rude.
grkbarbie
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i have a friend like that. same thing but she made a fake excuse..
and last night i saw her out... she looke dlke a deer in headlights. but i think maybe cuz she was drunk and i was drunk??
but i dont know if im inviting her to my wedding. i guess i have to???
Clover23
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idk if you can un-invite her to the wedding but i completely understand that you're upset, that's just not cool.
GR2010
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Maybe I am totally wrong on this one but if my mom/sister invited someone to my shower and they invited yes but were a no-show without any kind of explanation I would be kinda upset. I think I would actually take them off of the guest list for the wedding. I don't need people RSVPing yes, paying a ridiculous amout of $$ for them to eat and then have them not show up.
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Posted by GinaRandy2010
Maybe I am totally wrong on this one but if my mom/sister invited someone to my shower and they invited yes but were a no-show without any kind of explanation I would be kinda upset. I think I would actually take them off of the guest list for the wedding. I don't need people RSVPing yes, paying a ridiculous amout of $$ for them to eat and then have them not show up.
This is exactly it. My shower was a complete surprise other than the fact I knew I was having one. My mom my MOH and my cousins did EVERYthing (centerpieces, favors, etc).... and then to not show? and no follow up phone call today? I'll give it a week, but if I don't hear from her, I think I'm pulling her invite. Ettiquette be dam*ed.
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Posted by GinaRandy2010
Maybe I am totally wrong on this one but if my mom/sister invited someone to my shower and they invited yes but were a no-show without any kind of explanation I would be kinda upset. I think I would actually take them off of the guest list for the wedding. I don't need people RSVPing yes, paying a ridiculous amout of $$ for them to eat and then have them not show up.
couldn't say it better one of fh's friends decided he 'was too sunburnt' in MAY to show up to our e-party..he was going to be a gm too..after that shennanagan, no more
flibbertigibbet
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did you send out invites yet?
you really shouldn't (or can't tactfully) uninvite someone.
but if they haven't gone out yet?!
JAAMS
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Hmmmm is this typical of her? If so, I think it would be legit to express your concerns to her. If this is a first offense, maybe try to see what happened first?
I'd be annoyed - but ya can't un-invite her. I would just be done with her after the wedding though...
JoanneAndJustin
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My invites did not go out. I'll see what shakes out this week.
I'm not really interested in how tactful it is, no explanation as to why you RSVPed Yes and didn't show... I can send the invite to someone who would like to come instead.
JillandJoe
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u can uninvite whoeer u want, its ur wedding, but id confront her first and see why she did that...might be a misunderstanding, or something
ritavny
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Yea, I would definitely be annoyed.
TessMike621
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i had one of my bridesmaids do this...you know what, it's her lost!! wait to see if she calls you and the first chance you get let her know how you feel!
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It is rude, but I think there's always someone who does that. I think it's extremely rude to RSVP yes to somewhere and not show. At least give a call to give a heads up or an apology. I'm going to expect that somebody will do this at my wedding though.
I don't know if I would uninvite her to the wedding. See if she gives you a call. Is this a close friend?
